is it true that when 2 men are having sex that the one getting fucked doesn't have an erection (or loses it)? if this is true are you still able to enjoy orgasms? BTW~i think thats totally cool btw just thinking about it~
Depends on the guy, some just like to lay there enjoy the feeling, some can come just through that without touching their dicks (you dont need a full erection to come in that way), for some the hottest thing is to get wanked off while getting fucked. And of course depends on how big the fuck-er is. But its a bit of a myth that gay guys are all about anal, overall they are probably more oral based than their straight counterparts
I reckon you would still enjoy an orgasm regardless. I mean, without getting gross, all my partners have been somewhat different in terms of erection, but all have seemed to have a good time. I am not going to quote this as an exact certainty however, as I am the man of a relationship, if you catch my drift.
If your partner loses his boner, massage his stomach up and down and play with him to maintain it. Tantric techniques can be helpful, as can foreplay. Sex as a panacea for releasing pent up frustrations etc can be wonderful, but sometimes such pent up 'blockages' can interfere at an emotional level with the joy and pleasure of sex or the pleasure will be short lived. Orgasm for your partner will be just as pleasurable as it is for you, make no mistake.
No, its not true. It can happen if the other guy is distracted or something but it is psychological and has nothing to do with getting fucked in the ass. Myself, I always stay hard when getting fucked.
I'm with the above poster that said some just like to concentrate & enjoy the feeling. I hardly ever have a hard on when I'm getting fucked. My dick will just hang there flaccid as can be. Meanwhile I'll be in anal heaven riding my dildo or having an actual cock in me. While that's taking place, I'll massage my balls or my taint & then when I'm ready to get myself off, I'l begin stroking myself & I end up cumming within a minute. But me being soft while getting fucked doesn't mean I'm not turned on. Far from it actually...