my boyfriend is not intrested in sex the way I am. I want it 24/7 Every time I look at him I crave his hands on my body. But he is very busy with school and work and his music. and to top it all off he is very shy. what do you guys think would help me get him in the mood more often.
be spontaneous. when he comes home just dont even say anything, just undo his pants and start giving him oral. then when hes aroused lead him to the bedroom. don't give him time to say no. for added effect, wear very little clothing and throw it off on the way to the bedroom, so while you're leading him there he gets a chance to admire you.
You're every guy's dream come true lol... No really men are human too and sometimes IMO sexual desire/urges can go in phases. Depression, poor diet, stress, and being tired can all decrease it as can some drugs and overuse of alcohol. Have you picked a friendly, non confrontational time to talk to him about it?
I like it every day, but not 24/7. There is more to a relationship than just sex. Try talking about politics, the weather, etc., or doing things together which are not horizontal. You might find that he is more than just a stud for you.
Massages, kissing his neck, cuddling…. If he's shy it's probably because he's a little uncomfortable. Try to make him relax so he's less self conscious.
You could always help him set the mood. Sometimes that'll make it easier for guys to know that girls want sexual confrontation. Then he'll only become less shy and more wanting you to put your hands all over him
Ok... I looked at pictures of you in your gallery (), and I have to say: he's a fool for not wanting you 24/7. I think i would stop eating if I had access to a woman as beautiful as you who was that interested in frequent lovemaking. To me it's proof that life is unfair, the way that couples are almost always sexually mismatched. In my marriage, my wife would be perfectly happy with once every month or two. I could be deliriously happy with every hour or two. And we're in our 30's. So I beg and plead, and we usually settle on abot every week or two. let's just say my right hand and I are awfully close
I'm hip, I want it at the least ev other day, she's into ev other week, and a quickie. I get the feeling she feels she's doing me a favor, and not into it for her own pleasure.
