Guy lingo ... you interested or not ?

Ok theres this guy I liked for years I cant even discribe how he makes me feel ... my stomach feels like butterflys are in it and I get soo happy ...I always smile when I think about him.. hes the sweetest guy I ever met ... but his friend said he likes me but he also likes another chick ... then his friend told me later on that he really likes me and there isnt another chick but hes just too scared and shy to say anything ... erg i am soo fuckin confused !!! What should I do ... He was flirting with me and staring at me all the time when we hang out ergg ... then nothing ...
I always move on but it seems I always end up liking him still in the end ... Soo can anyone please give me some advice !!
Thanks alot
Peace<3
Katy

 

I'm sorry, you're confused about what? His friend told it to you in plain english, he likes you, but he's too shy to make a move because he doesn't know if you like him. This would be especially confusing for him since he may know his friend told you, that he likes you, and you havnet made a move yet. Seriously its up to you, just ask him out, you already know he likes you.

 

umm don't move onto another guy which lets him know you're not interested.... right? only makes sense. do you flirt with him? ask him out.... you've heard he likes you twice, and if there's another girl he's interested in too, well you better hurry up and snag him quick!

 

He knows I like him .... My friend told him and he said he already knew .... I am soo confused about that ... if he's interested and he knows i am interested then why doesnt he make a move?

 

if you like him so much, why don't you make the move?

 

Some have what appears to be a strange notion the chick should make the first move... not firting but 'the move'.


Do it!

 

LOl ! thanks guys !! I ll keep my mind open and see if I get the oppertunity I will try but if he just doesnt like me
I will move on and see if I find someone that is really ment for me I am sure he is out there lol

 

i know how you feel... except my guy doesn't like another girl. i'm just too afraid to tell him how i feel.

 

something I learned about risks
it may not seem like it at first, but there is always more to be gained

 

Damn ask him...lots of us guys are to shy to ask ....ESPECIALLY if you like him too.
THis is almost 2007.. not 1937 You'll have some fun....

 

I think you should tell your friend to tell him that if he wants you then to come and get you but your friend also mentioned to you that he likes you and he is too shy to ask you out so basically, he wants you to approach him. So why don't you just go talk to him and have like 10,000 of his babies? JK..... Don't really do that. Just don't play the HARD TO GET GAME like all the other girls. Show him that you know what you want and nothing gets in your way.

 

But i understand your fear because it real common for us guys cuz we almost always expected to do the asking thus we are the ones getting rejected. Share risks ladies please....

 

LOl aww guys awesome info !! I am really starting to get the confidence to confront him LOl I guess it would be stupid if I didnt confront him and just let him go ... I ll give it a try and see how it goes LOl
THANKS YOU soooo much!!!! I appreicate it !!!! If you got more tips feel free to drop a line
Peace<3
Katy

 

'confront'?

Perhaps 'approach' would be a better(?) Mindset
unless yall are that kinky
which somehow I don't Think so...... yet... *L*



Anyone else feel 'kinky' sux as a sub for 'BDSM'?

 

i say go for it, he's you're friend so just ask him to do smething together,.... he's just shy

 

Ask him out!

"If people never gave up on anything, then no one would have anything that they could regret for their entire lives"

 

ya seriously it is so hard for me to ask out a girl cause im just always so afraid of being rejected and feeling the akwardniss that goes along with it, it is also SO MUCH HARDER if im friends with a girl thay i like cause i want to be with them even if were not goin out and if i ask a girl out thats my friend and she doesn like me then its going to be too weird to ever talk to her again

 

If you really want him to make the move... then make him... Say stuff including the words us and we... then he'll get the point of that you think of you two as together.. lol and he may say "whats this us stuff" and say "well... I was just hoping.. that maybe... we could be an us.... if you want... but of course I know you havent asked me out yet." lol

 

i've always been shy, i know that...but i don't have an answer for you offhand...let me think

 

geez, grow up and leave the "his friend told me that my friend said to him that MAYBE he likes me...." stuff for when you're 12 or 13. you're profile says you're 18...what happens with you and him is nothing to do with his friend!