So I have dating a guy, hes kind of....meh. Anyways, a guy has been coming over while hes at work and the sex is amazing. He knows about it. Basically he just waits in the car until we are done. The sex is not very good with him, he just complains a lot. I am curious what you guys think on him knowing about me and the other guy hooking up? Am I an ass if he knows and is ok with it? It's basically we are good together, yet the sex is...eh. Not the best. When the guy started to flirt with me he didn't mind, it still feels weird at times. I can't complain, but..what should I do?
If you are happy and he doesn't care enjoy. You are not the only woman in this type of relationship. I've known several couples, the same way. Some men don't care that much about sex, and don't expect their woman to do without.
Sex isn't automatically over the top for everyone. There's plenty of ways to spice things up, why not teach him a few things? Tell him to turn off the porn, too.......
Mellisa - I have three questions for you: - Does your boyfriend want a roll-in-the-hay with you after your FWB leaves? - Does your boyfriend ask for detailed information about your visit with your FWB? - How frequent is your "meh sex" with your boyfriend? Inquiring minds want to know. Thank you.
I question the whole thing You say you are doing good, but ate you really happy being together? What do you think is the long term prospect with him? Is having someone else satisfying you sexually going to define your relationship(s)? Meaning, instead of your partner, boyfriend, husband
My wife has a boyfriend. It's not that he's the only one who sexually satisfies her. Her relationship with him doesn't define our marriage. I realize she does things with him that her and I don't do, just like her and I do things they don't do together. She likes variety, and her relationship with him has enhanced our own sex/love life