Guilt Trip...

God damn... i've never really felt guilty until now...

ya see... my whole family is friends with this other family. they have a girl the age of my sister, and a boy my age. moms and dads are like siblings, it's funny... i've always kind of felt older than my friend, and i don't really know how to describe it... we don't see eachother regularly, a few times a year, but we did a lot of stuff growing up together...

well...

his older sister sent me a message on myspace.. it made me feel pretty shitty...


"""as you know, we're coming down for (holiday) and it's always really exciting. i always have a good time with you guys. but i've heard from my mom, and from ( my sister), that your smoking pot now.

I was pretty sad to here that. your a great guy kevy and i don't think you should be doing that at all. (guy) is my little brother, and i dont even think he really knows anything about pot to be honest. he's never been around it and people don't talk to him about it. and if i find out that you talked to him about it/smoked it in front of him/or left him to go get high, this (holiday), and i will be really really dissapointed in you. I know that at (holiday) people get crazy during that time. but i'm asking you to please refrain from doing that on the (holiday) weekend. or at any time that will is there.
Do you think that sounds understandable? """


now... i was so fucking close to sending her back a message saying that her dad smoked, (he does), and so does my dad (on occasion). and how it's not bad and whatnot...
i just said sure, and that i stopped...

it's funny because when she said that she would never come down again... she sounded pretty young, but they are like late teens...

the question is how the fuck did my sister find out, why she told her, why the fuck did my parents tell them, and why they think i would be so irresponsible as too smoke with somone or even mention it to anyone that had not been exposed to it at all...



anyways.. now i feel really bad... even though i shoudn't.

 

I would say donot feel guilty. You have done nothing wrong.

Just make sure not to tell of your dad/her dad smoking. It is a big deal, if they find out, then its one things, but donot snitch on them.

She obviously hasnt given much thought to the world yet, you can try and force down her throat of how pot is harmless etc, but i doubt it would work. It takes for most people to get high to actually open their eyes. Just leaves things be. Didnt need to lie to her, once again, you havent really done anything wrong. But if she asked you not to get her brother into it, then you shouldnt. Atleast until hes older then 14.

 

I'm kind of feeling the same way except for a different reason. My parents have been really trusting me lately and just dishing out money and letting me do whatever the fuck I want basically, because I haven't been getting into trouble and I've been getting good grades. I've been spending all that money on pot and cigarettes though and its really starting to get to me. I think I just need a job or something though, that would help, but it would also interfere with my school work and football conditioning.

 

wtf. what a bitch... you did nothing to her or her pussy ass brother, why is she bitching at you? if her brother wants to smoke the herb thats his choice not hers... who is she to put you down lile that? this calls for a shit in the pillow case. id be offended, and personally make sure that her treasured little brother gets stoned as fuck.

 

haha.... jeez, marksup, little anger?
i would do that... but... he is sorta by the rules... he would probably tell somone ... i agree it should be his choice... she is just very protective of him, and i don't know how to react because my sister is the exact opposite, i am 6'2" and pretty sketch. get what i'm sayne?



and stonertower, i am in a similar situation in addition to the events previously stated. it's great, and everything is fine, but you just can't help but feel a little irresponsible... same with you?


mr.greenxxx, that is what i'm thinkin, on the same page with you.

 

What other people think of me, is none of my business.

 

well it's not really about what she thinks of me, or their family, i don't give a flying fuck.

but i sorta feel responsible for... something...

 

that's the kind of stuff that gets me mad.... because i just think like if it were me. this girl is 5 years older than you, at the most, and is acting like some mother hen. date rape her or something, then she'll know what true evils lie in this world

 

Be a normal teenager and tell her to fuck off.

 

ROFL. rohypnol is fun. i'm not into rape, but i should just slip her some and then undress her and put her in a closet... AHAHAHAHHAA...

just kidding...

but i just don't think introducing him to MJ would be a good idea...

 

my mom guilt trips me with out trying to guilt trip me and it just makes me feel like shit. some days she cant even hold a conversation with me before she just starts crying and about a week ago she told my sister that shes on sleep meds again cause she cant get to sleep cause she stays up worring that im using again. im gonna start voluntarily going to na again but i just have no idea what else to do.

 

^ for just weed?

 

Dude my mom is similar, whenever i would stay our really late, she would trip me out how she wasnt able to sleep worrying and shit. Its BS, because for years, anything bad that did happen to me, she never found out of.

The first time she found out i smoked weed, holy fucking shit... there were too many tears... and i was baked as fuck listening to all this OMFG MY SON IS ON DRUGS shit.

I hate guilt trips.

 

my parents would never guilt me into anything. i exceed all of their extremely high standards, so there's nothing for them to bitch about. i'd probably get my ass beat though, no doubt about that. and all of my privledges would be taken away... no car, phone, computer, etc

 

o hell no, she really doesnt even care about weed as long as i do it outside. back before i went to rehab she kept finding opiates in my room just about every week so she still brings that up, plus about two weeks ago she caught my friend smokin tweak. i wasnt even fucking doing it then but now she thinks im like a fucking meth head

 

oh noez. but at least she didn't find YOU doing the meth

 

haha yah, not that wouldnt have made for a fun talk

 

so you were doing it at other times?

i kinda gotta side with your mom on this one. i'd be pretty upset if i found out my son was doing opiates or meth at any age, let alone 15

 

o i def do not blame her. if any thing i just wish my mom had a different son, because my mom kicks fucking ass and deserves better

 

dude i'd swap... If youd include some opiates into the deal...