Goodbye Faerylights.

So now I have changed my user name from an overly effeminate one to an overtly masculine one.Will that affect how I post.I don't know,but Faerylights was annoying me.I weigh 17 stones fir Christ sakes.

 

And a feminine name was wrong for you why?

A man should not be persuaded to change because of the majorly masculine man is both bothered and intimidated.


Fck what "they" think. Think of yourself first and foremost.

 

iron mountain. Grueling 22 mile rt with over 8000 ft elevation gain. Its steep. It has been on my list for awhile.

Nice name. I imagine you with a 5 o clock shadow

 

Well I need to toughen up in real life too.I have no problem with the softer side of my nature,but I need to get realer.Thanks for your opinion FierceFlower.I'm sure I will still be Faerylights for those that know me here for some time.

 

I liked the name tbh. Sad to see it go.

 

I know.I'm sorry.But the deed is done.I think have gone from one extreme to another.Now I will have to play the tough guy lol...

 

Not with that signature.

 

Well I guess I'll just be my usual self,which is a complicated mixed up entity.

 

Always be yourself. The fact that you changed your username because of someone else speaks volumes of your vulnerability. Don't allow others to judge or control you.

 

I didn't change it for anyone else.It was just done on a whim.I do own up to my vulnerabilities though.But everyone has them on some level,no?

 

Depends.

 

I change names often cause i can

 

Iron john sounds like a metal toilet though, i assume i'm supposed to piss on you

 

Indeed! I never thought of that ramification.And now I'm stuck with it for 300 days...

 

because he is a dude....you go ahead and name your own son susan and see what happens

what fact?.... no fact....he was the one that grew tired of the name.....not us




I like the new name way better

 

I still see you as Fairlight (which I found to be a really good name)

 

Yeah,but my life is heavy shit.It doesn't matter anyway.Sometimes I want to leave this place and then something draws me back.

 

I think it still suits you!

 

Subvert the dominant paradigm.Break the bonds of conformity.Become what you are.

 

That's my fairlight.