I don't know what to do, i am stuck in a situation right now. I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years. I love her, I do, but I love everything but our physical relationship. I used to love to kiss her, make out, fuck, and ect. I don't know what happend but now she just completely turns me off, I don't even want to kiss her anymore, and I can't even remember the last time we made out. I don't mind cuddling with her, and I love talking to her, but I have just been so evasive when it comes to physical things. She wants to do stuff all the time with me, and its not that i dont want to do things with her, i just cant. Now i just recently have started talking to an ex of mine, who i dated for a little while, but nothing sexual at all between us. I just dont know what to do. Anybody been in a situation simalar?
bummer man. Is it an attraction thing? Do other women fire you up and turn you on when she doesn't? Do you smoke dope? I've heard that that can fuck up your physical arousal-ness. Maybe you two need to do some more erotic sex things and see if that can spice shit up a little. Will she let you go into her butt?
Yes, yes, and not anymore, just stopped smoking bud two weeks ago because i was arrested, now on probation (which adds to my fustration).
You want other women. I know it's tough because I've been in that situation. Had a relationship of 3 years and at some point it fizzled out and we went 2 months without sex! And I slept on the couch! Are you guys monogamous? Do you fantasize about other women? As for me, I learned my lesson. I like being monogamous for a little while, then I need to experiment later on. I try to be very honest with women about that from the get-go.
well here. You're young, and if youre not attracted to her, you need to find someone who suits your tastes. Just because you love someone doesnt mean you need to be in a relationship with them. Either let her know about the issue, or offer that you two go your seperate ways. Those are what i would consider
i know that when i lost my physical attraction to my ex, it was due to some pretty severe underlying issues in the relationship. maybe theres something else going on, even though you may not consciously realize it. just step back and examine the relationship, and maybe just talk to her if you see any unresolved issues that need to be worked out.
