Been w her since we were kids. I had some infidelities over the years. If I could go back in time n not do it I would. But I can’t. Now she knows and continues to throw it in my face every time we fight. So one night I set her up w a single friend of mine. Try to “even the score”. She has never been w anyone but me. He is handsome n hung (9”). I’m not small (8”). But she’s had me for 33years. After the first time she went to his house while I was sleeping n tried to cheat on me. He turned her down. We continued the situation and and fell in love w him. The funny thing is after I was done w the women I was w I wanted to flee the scene like a criminal. She wants to marry him. He is single w a kid from another woman. He is loyal to be and will not “back door” me. Still she is too vested in him. We tag team her and it’s fun but it’s gone on too long. I’m going to just let it die on the vine. I can’t compete w something that new. Can’t. Thoughts?
You need to talk with your friend, He may be happy getting sex, but may not even want her around. You need to talk to your wife also.