I’ve read a lot of these posts over the last year or so and several have asked how you know who is interested in or looking for “action”. This weekend I saw a social media post about pineapples being a reference to the swinger lifestyle. And I thought, why not have some inconspicuous symbol that could be easily identified as an invitation to approach someone about the bisexual or man/man lifestyle. I came up with the green dot. A simple green dot on top of the meaty part of your hand between the thumb and first finger. This could be done with a green sharpie and would be easy to see when you shook hands, which I assume most do. This obviously wouldn’t help the guys that don’t go out much but it’d work well for the guys staying in hotels or such that go down to the bar looking for “entertainment “. I’m sure it would take awhile for this to catch on but I’m also sure the pineapple thing didn’t take off overnight either. Let me know what you think.
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It's a clever suggestion, I think, Rich. A green dot could symbolize "go" as in "let's go"; and the dot in that spot would be noticeable even without shaking hands - but particularly when shaking a hand. How does something take on meaning and symbolism is beyond me. I guess you start with yourself and make a green mark on your hand every time you are out cruising. It might catch on. why not? over the years, a lot of people have asked tthat question - how can we let someone else know what we want or who we are, while at the same time remaining discreet about it. Years ago, gay men had a whole system on this topic - by using various colors of handkerchiefs - and placing them in their left or right back pocket. But being a discreet bisexual male takes on a bit of a challenge to find the right symbol for others to recognize you for who you are or what you are looking for.
Not being very experienced with men, I have always wondered how to pick up a man in a public setting. One time this guy and saw each other and we knew, I knew he was a submissive bottom. I really wanted to start talking to him, but we were both with our wives. As we started to go our own ways, we both gave each other a wink and a nod. Never saw him again. But still, how does one pick up a man? I know one guy wears women’s panties showing and he gets picked up once in a while. I guess the best way would be to just start up a conversation and see where it leads
