Why gays and lesbians can not get married. The reason must be non-religious, so saying because God says its wrong won't work, because your religion is not law. It must be fair and objective, so turning the question around and asking why anyone should be allowed to marry or want to marry won't work, because your personal OPINION is not law. I really want to know what reason there is besides religion. I'm not denying there might be a reason, I want to know.