tease urself and make it last and last and last???? As a guy i find it real Hot to get right up to what I call the Point of no return.....then stop.......start and stop until I just HAVE to CUm.......its sooo intense for me that way......like an EXPLosion. Ladies, Please share do u do it this way too?? Any details u feel comfortable sharing would be welcomed Paul Ps. if u like, feel free to PM Me!