Girls stop talking to me after sex.

Why do girls start to distance themselves over text after I’ve had sex with them once or twice. We’ll have amazing chemistry and attraction but after sex their messages will become dry and they will slowly start to stop talking to me. I want to know why this happens and how I can prevent it

 

Silence is a good indicator that your girlfriend does not get the same satisfaction as yourself, males have it easy when it comes to climaxing. Women are in totally different ball game, they need good starters and guys that don't cum too quickly. There are numerous reasons, that are different for different women, that can be a put-you-down for having good sex and the good feelings that come from it. I can't help with that, but what I can do is to advise you to choose older women who are confident in themselves to steer you into being a more thoughtful lover.

 

Yeah, if they think that you aren't good in bed, it might be a tender mercy that they don't talk to you because you just might get your feelings crushed if they do. How to prevent it? Get better at having sex with women; step up your pussy-eating game and try to last longer and grow some thicker skin because you can get better at it and... some women won't talk to you after you've had sex with them.

 

There could be a myriad of reasons. The @$$holes telling you it's your technique should be ignored. Perhaps there wasn't a real "connection" that they felt. It could be that they had no intention of any kind of connection or relationship. It could be that you have some adjustments you could make in your way of communicating or how you make people feel. You won't know for sure until you do some true soul searching or you find one of your ex-partners that will have a candid conversation with you. Don't be discouraged. Keep enjoying "practicing" and be confident that practice makes perfect.

 

I by and large agree with the first two guys, except my replies are much more blunt.

You probably sucked. And not in the good way.

First Rule--if you want connections or repeats, be sure the first time is good.

(I will never deliberately steer anyone wrong. Not about sex. I won't attempt to blow sunshine up anyone's ass. I'm sorta like tough love that way.)