(Girls) Do you get off to humiliation?

I was reading on sigman frued the other day... and it spoke of how women secretly enjoy to be abused and humiliated...
This question is for Females only....

I myself didn't quite understand this... if anyone (female) could elaborate it for me I would be quite appreciative....

 

i know i shouldnt post, im a male, but i get off when the girls humiliated.
and remember frued was a cokehead who prolly didnt know ALL TOO MUCH about women, he had some crazy theories (penis envy, ect). just a thought.

 

Correct, Freud was also a complete fuck-up, which is a bitch because he also sired modern psychiatry. I love seeing women humiliated, like being skullfucked or whatever, but that's just because I don't like them very much.

If you want to humiliate the girl, why justify it by saying it's what she really wants? And doesn't that make it less humiliating anyway?

 

haha, I love how just guys answered
and selfcontrol, why do you hate women so much..
and whats skull fucked..
I personally dont secretly like being abused..anyone hurts me during sex, their balls will be kicked in..

 

I don't have any reason to like them.

 

maybe cause they are people too...

 

on the mild end of humiliation. Maybe it's not even technically humiliation, but I like getting called names it bed - bad girl, slut, ****, etc. Really turns me on. But outside of the bedroom, I would get very very upset with my SO if he called me those names. I don't like abuse or anything though, just name calling.

 

That's a shit argument. That's like saying you should like streptochocci [sp?] because "they're bacteria too". I dislike women because they're even more shallow and superficial than men, at least men fancy what you are, not what you own.

 

hehe, yeah, I didnt know what else to say...

Not all women are like that though..that would be like saying that about men. With people, some are good and some are bad..Theres a mix of them.

 

Self Control, does this mean that you prefer men over women? I'm not asking that in a rude way, I'm just curious. Or, do you get with women but really just loathe them and want to "hurt" them? It sounds like you've been burnt pretty bad by someone, and I'm very sorry to hear that. Not all women are interested in what men own. There are women out there who will love you for you, and not all of that other crap.

Peace.

 

yea self control loves the cock....thats not a very good reason to loathe women mind you

 

By the way, to answer the original question, no, I don't secretly enjoy being humiliated.

 

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I don't like being abused or humiliated. A short time ago, to be "in", I put myself in a postion to allow both. It was a lesson learned painfully.

On the other hand, I do enjoy being spanked or paddled hard and I do prefer submissive positions (on my knees giving oral, over someones knee, holding my ankles, etc). but that is in the confines of the bedroom. I also have a "safe" word, which gives me the control over the severity of the discipline.

 

i must say i too would like to b called names, in bed only though, id feel really bad if it was just outside of that...but its not my favorite thing though...my friend on the other hand...she LOVES being callednames and yelled at and being slapped around, shes big on being cut...all that pain name-calling shit, im not good with pain...lol

wow, id have to completely agree, it sounds like u (selfcontrol) has been hurt...im so sorry if this is true...and if it isnt then i have no idea y ud think that all woman r like that? thats like me saying all men r gross slobs who just like to sit and drink beer watching big boobs...not all guys r like that , not all girls r materialistic! god knows im not lol and its thickheaded of u to think that i sorta feel bad now....

 

I had asked an ex and a friend of mine this question. While they admit that they enjoy humiliation none ever explained why... It is a mystery that still remains unanswered.

 

It fits into role play, its kinky, I guess thats why some women like it, they get to give up control..some men like it too.

Slef control, you've got to be the angriest homosexual this side of Andrew Cunanan, how about not prejudging half of the earths population by gender. The tables could be turned on men too, the more violent of the sexes....of course both these are generalizations....big, bad generalizations.

 

Yeah, I know. The second bit wasn't specifically directed at anyone, it was just a mediation on the psychology of it all; I think a lot of guys justify their desire to humiliate women by saying that woman secretly want to be degraded, and it seems odd, because surely it takes half the fun out of it.

Yeah, I generally do prefer The Boys. And I was doing schtick about the whole "abusing women" thing. I found it funny, even if no-one else did.

As to the difference between women and men, some guy did some study or other where they analysed lonely hearts ads, and compared the content of those ads for men and for women. In the test, they found that men tended to mention physical attributes, whereas women were more likely to be looking for "family men" or financial security. I'm not saying that's the case with all women, but it does fit in with the whole "nesting instinct" deal.

 

i dont get humiliated.

 

Sure, I can totally understand where you're coming from SelfControl. I won't disagree with you that many women are looking for a man that can provide a comfortable life of stability, a family guy who wants to settle down and have kids, and all of that.

Myself, when I became involved with my hubby, I remember thinking to myself "okay, I adore this man, he's a hard worker, he comes from a good family, and I know that he's going to be a man that will be a good husband and father." A lot of those things made me feel even more attracted to him, because I was looking for a stable, family envoirnment. I wanted the house, the kids, the whole bit.

I never really thought of it as being into what he had, what he could/would own, but perhaps, I can see your point to a certain degree. Women DO tend to have the nesting instinct and they're looking for certain things in a man that will be able to give them all of that. I still don't think that desiring those attributes all boil down to materialism though. But I also do know that some women can be more into the material possesions than others, and yes, some women are shallow, gold-digging, ball-busting bitches.

Peace.