Girlfriend turns me on and then just acts disinterested

so I’m dating this wonderful woman who is a perfect match for me. The only thing which really bothers me is that sometimes she turns me ‘on’ and then just drops it out of nowhere. Let me explain:

I come home late from work, feeling relaxed and settling down in the living room, still up for some conversation or something on netflix. She asks whether I’d rather go to bed and talk. We talk about our days and she starts touching me, gets me hard and aroused and as soon as I want to touch her, she tells me she is not ‘horny’. How am I meant to understand this? I feel mistreated and bad when this happens. I know I have a higher libido than her and this would have never caused a problem until this started.

 

she sounds like a cock teaser mate

 

Two can play that game, you know. Teasing can be so fun, when you're playing it right.

If you get the feeling that it's intentional, talk about it with her, let her know it bothers you. If she doesn't care, and she keeps doing it, then you might want to dump this ''wonderful woman,'' because she isn't so wonderful, then.

 

thanks chaps for your thoughts!

 

Agree completely with Deidre. A bit of teasing can be fun, but if she does this on a regular basis it seems more like just fucking with your head for her own amusement. I'd ask myself if I want to keep going with that. Been there, done that, did not dig it.

 

Imo, dump your load before coming home (if you must) and try as hard as hell to put a smile of contentment on your face and go about your normal routine. With her first touch, duplicate it by touching her. If she stops, stop. if she says she is not horney, say the same. If she says but your dick is hard, say I can take or leave the pussy, no worries. But keep that satisfied look about you. Yes 2 can play fucking games.