Hi Me and gf have agreed to involve others in our sex live. I said to her earlier how do we start off? She said its my choice so i said next time we have my friends over she can play. Is this a good start?
Sounds great to me asht. Good Luck and enjoy yourselves. You are a very lucky man and don't you forget it!
As part of a couple that is in the lifestyle I don't think it is a great idea bringing current vanilla friends into your sex life! Less of a chance of problems coming up if you stick to other people that get and understand the lifestyle.
I joined several friends as the third male, but followed their rules. The main thing, a few allowed wife to play alone, but others only allowed her to play when he was present. I respected his wishes. And was always discreet. When my gf ventured into the open lifestyle, she didn't want it to be with friends. But we did have one couple who we started out playing with, and carried on for many years.
There's a lot more to it than that. First step is fine, you've discussed it openly and both seem interested. But it doesn't end there. You'll want to open the communication further, discuss boundaries etc. not every play partner is going to be open to what you do and what you want, they'll have their own boundaries too. Best discuss yours now if you have any, make sure you're on the same page and agreement. Personally I think this type of sexuality is good fun an good experience, but it's not worth it at the cost of your relationship. Communication.
