getting bored with the same old... any suggestions? help much appreciated. i need more than just a the normal play.
Try http://www.clitical.com/ it has a limitless amount of techniques, experiments, and even erotica to get you in the mood
You might try going a while without masturbating, 'til you're so horny you can't stand it. I find the shower head massager will really wake my pussy up, if I've had no sexual thoughts or feelings for a while, if it just barely touches my clit, my other hand automatically moves to pulll the hood and skin back so that the stream pours directly on my clit, and I can't take it off until I've had this unique, shower massager climax. The shower massager and vibrator are both like electricity-once they touch my clit, I can't pull 'em off. If I haven't been horny in a long time, I can just BARELY touch the vibrator to my clit and I'll instantly say, 'ahhh, yesss' and can't take it off until I have one of those god-awfully strong vibrator climaxes.
gertie -- Have you ever tried phone sex as a novel way to masturbate? (Feel free to PM me, and we could try, if you like.)