girl question (ladies answer)

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by chajjohnson, Jul 8, 2008.

  1. chajjohnson

    chajjohnson Member

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    If a girl hasnt made any serious effort to contact or talk with me even for about a month can i just assume that she doesnt want to talk or what? Its sorta pissing me off because a few girls have done this to me actually and im wondering if theyre giving me a hint or are just busy. And if i talked to them if they'd enjoy it or just be annoyed.
     
  2. paix

    paix Senior Member

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    my basic rule is, if someone wants to talk to you, they will, if not, screw 'em.
     
  3. Frieden

    Frieden Senior Member

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    I'd move on.
     
  4. airnordica

    airnordica Member

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    Dude, sounds like a pattern. You might want to examine what it is that is driving them off. And yes they are blowing you off. If they liked you they would want to talk to you. My rule is: Call them once if they don't get back to you don't be a stalker and start calling them. Give it a week and then call again, for the last time. If you get voice mail keep it quick and positive. Like "haven't heard from you for a while just wanted to say hello, drop me a line when you get a chance. Later" And then if they don't call you, Move the F$#K on. Don't be get hung up on them. Just look at what it was you could have done different when you did have their attention. Make sense?
     
  5. lilnat20

    lilnat20 Member

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    maybe try and contact them once and see whats happens, otherwise its a sign of a push off!
     
  6. liberer

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    hmm, it's difficult to say because, the full story isn't known.

    she might equally be thinking the same... wondering and waiting if you're going to call her.
    give her a buzz, ask her how things are going, you know.. and then from the way she answers you, after such a long time, you should be able to tell if she's interested or not.

    if she's very into it and loving, she is.. and she's happy you called.
    if she seems distant, not paying attention.. it's not worth your worry.

    :) good luck lovely!
     
  7. Pizda

    Pizda Banned

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    fuck it, find someone that enjoys your time and company, other then that the rest that cant appreciate you, fuck em!
     
  8. NaNa~cHaN

    NaNa~cHaN Member

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    move on!!
    i agree with pizda
    fuck em go find urself someone else
     
  9. shalsahippie

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    she might be trying to play hard to get so id just call her and then see wat happens
     

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