Girl only wants to hang out over alcohol

If a girl only wants to hang out w you when alcohol is involved, does that mean she is only interested in you sexually?

Basically, this is the scenario:

-Drunk girl at bar all over me (2 weekends ago)
-Gives me her number; tells me we should get dinner
-I text her last Monday about dinner, she says, "uhh haha, just us two? I'm seeing someone right now, and I'm not sure that would go over well. I'm so sorry! "
-I drop it
-This week I text her some flirty/sexual things
-She eats it up; asks me what Im doing this weekend
-I suggest we get drinks, she says "That would be nice! I'm back in your city on X date"


So, she doesn't want to hang out over dinner, but she does over drinks.

She wants to just hook up, and not date? Am I reading this correctly?

PS - I don't drink; she knows this

 

^ this is your answer.

 

Im wondering if her "Im seeing someone right now" was her way of saying "No, I don't want to get dinner, but I do want to hook up with you over drinks"

 

Do you want to shag her?

 

Definitely.

 

Well go back to a bar than shag her silly mate
or something like that

 

Maybe you're a 2 bagger?

 

The problem I have with bar sluts is that everyone seems to be interchangeable to them: the boyfriend, the one-night stand, the fuck buddy, the new boyfriend are all...any man.

Fucking them seems like winning the lottery. It might not be related to whom you are or do...it may simply be a whim, a fleeting appreciation, good timing, etc. You could be ugly, handsome, tall, short, fat, thin, rich, poor, smart, dumb...perhaps, it doesn`t matter.

You seem to be employing the only successful strategy with bar sluts IMO and that is, persistence. Hang around her drunk long enough, and who knows? You might get lucky!

Or, more likely, you won`t. Because the whole bar might be trying to fuck the same chick, she likely flirts with the whole bar, and so, it could be a numbers game and the numbers seem to be against any one man.

Now, if you don`t drink; that could be a little frustrating. I would try to pick up chicks in other venues, like cafes; or, better yet, a common interest/activity. But, when I drank, I was also always at the bar, and so eventually my number would come, and I would get lucky just from being there.

And, if I am honest, throughout my drinking career, alcohol always interested me more than bar sluts, and it still seems more interesting to me today.

Good luck.

 

My plan is to go tot he bar with my boys, and give her a text telling her to come join. That way, she won't feel the pressure of 1-1 meet up.

Good idea, or should I go for the 1-1 meet up instead?

 

Didn't you already try the 1 on 1 meet up? And she declined?

 

I tried 1-1 for dinner, not for a drink.

But, you have a point.

Plus, if she bails, at least I'm still with my friends.

 

Yes just try for the bar
you never know, it could spark an interest in her to liking you if things go well

 

So, ask her 1-1 to the bar, or go with my friends and invite her along?

 

Do it with friends, maybe ask her to bring a friend or two as well. She might not wanna go if its just her and 5 strangers

 

That was my guess. Thanks a lot!

 

You are welcome
Let us know how it goes

 

didnt you just post this over @ the shroomery, nice copy paste job..

 

I think the question is , do you want a girl just to shag , or a girl that would be the mother of your kids ? This girl sounds like more of a one night shag girl to me , but I dont know her . desert rat

 

maybe she's just an alcoholic.

if she told you she had a boyfriend, why would you continue flirting with her, or even speaking to her at all?

 

Duh.