Hey guys and girls, just had a few q's about the female orgasm. gf and I have been going out for almost a year now, and the sex is pretty sweet Something that interests me is that after she has a 'big cum' (that's what we call it lol, but it's when I stimulate her clit and the same time as rubbing her gspot during oral) she can't come again, i cant even touch her clit let alone her body because she's so sensitive - so yeah, when people say "omg i can come like 10 times in 10 minutes" i find that highly bullshit. Another type of cum she has is just her vagina tightens up really bad and she closes her eyes real tight or rolls them back and a bit of cum comes out of her. These happen every 10 seconds or so. I also hear that some girls 'gush' when they come. I don't think this has happened with my gf but I know I'm giving her a real orgasm well because, she's never had a 'big cum' with any other boyfriend, I was the first to make her orgasm. So yeah it's weird, when she orgasms she doesn't gush or anything. Is this just something that some girls do and others dont? or am I not doing something right? And also, I'm trying to figure out this: when people say they have multiples, are they referring to the second type of orgasm, or the first (in reference to the 2 different ones I outlined above) thanks for any insight, mr. confused.
I can have HUGE orgasms like your 'big cum' every minute or so because I have a partner that knows how to touch me after I get sensitive without hurting me. So, no they aren't bullshit, it's simply about skill. It's my belief that not all girls can squirt, I can but it took me a long time to figure out how to do it. But I have friends who have tried for years and can't.
? It doesn't 'hurt' her, her clit just gets so sensitive that I just can't touch it, and the 'big cum' requires g spot + clit stimulation... so um...
It's still possible, you just need to figure it out. I've never had a partner that managed before this one.
I think you're doing just fine raul7. to orgasm once is enough, and it's great...really great. Yes, more is possible, but that can take time, or maybe never. I have never had multiple orgasms when having sex with another person, but I can make myself cum 3 times in 20 minutes. And that feels fucking amazing. Only if i'm extremely horny and have been deprived of an orgasm for over 3 days, or just before i start 'that time of the month'. Your gf is lucky you take care of her needs, a lot of women don't get 'big cums'....poor souls. At least you know your gf can, and that you can do this for her. Maybe you should ask her about her fantasy, she might have many. And then ask her Exactly what she wants, what feels the best etc.., and fill in that role. drive her wild,take your time, then she might have multiple orgasms. and have a big 'gush' but it really isn't so shit if she doesn't. Sex shouldn't just be about how many times you can make your lover cum or how fast you can. It is about the experience, the passion and also hot hornyness....... multiple orgasms and gushing are just a bonus, they are deffinetly not an essential part of pleasure. don't strive for something that not all woman's bodies can achieve, every body is different. Every human body is amazing, how we can feel so many different things and pleasure. Go with the flow of things, don't think to much about the technical parts of sex. rosie
It took me longer than ten minutes to experience what a womens orgasm is like, I have my doubts about whether a women can orgasm in such a short amount of time. I think all this talk about g-spot orgasm is just some guys way of making a lot of money from books, not to say that the g-spot doesn't exist, because I believe it does. For me it took a lot longer than ten minutes, try like around 7 ~ 9 hours of drawn out foreplay. Continuous foreplay (gentle (like the wings of a butterfly) caressing with my hands over a very long time). Cold night. No light in the room. Oral on me (69) slowly ... I caressed her for hours, until my arms ached, then I just kept going ... Finally I remember I was suffering from "lovers balls" she allowed me in but initially she didn't. After hours of foreplay we were soaked in perspiration I mean we were drenched and then I entered her ... Orgasm for a women and me is one of those life changing events that you never forget. When your inside a women that is having an orgasm, her vaginal barrel distends at the end and then goes into spasmodic contractions as one is thrusting in and out, that pressure around your ... feels incredible !!! It leaves you gasping for breath because the sensation around your ... is over stimulating - until finally you ejaculate !!! At that point It felt like i lost consiousness and i felt fused together with her as one in the same, and this amazing feelings of closeness, love, and total trust. I guess this must sound strange but that is how it is.
