Hello all, Me and my firlfriend of 10 months recently broke up. This past September we both went our separate ways to different colleges. Before that, we had the best relationship imaginable. We were head over heels in love. But, the separtion we had made of drift apart and change a little. We were not understanding each other very well. I was getting jealous and a bit controlling and she was not fully understanding my situation which was leading to fights. She was unhappy. She decided to break up with me explaining this revelation she had about her she is only happy at the expense of others. She wanted to find happiness for herself. She was not happy with the person who had made her so happy before (me). I drifted away from the person she fell in love with. But, now I realize that and she says she can't be with me right now; that she needs to find herself and be alone at this time. I understand her decision and I am going to try to do the same. I want to be the guy she fell in love with. But, what can I do to get her back down the road? I want to give her her space, but at the same time show her that I can be the guy she originally fell in love with. Any response would be appreciated. Thanks guys! Sorry this was so long lol.