Getting Sex without Drink!

Is it harder to get laid, if you don't drink. I don't drink. Using alcohol, whether it be wine or not can often be very romantic. I have come to the conclusion that you can't reduce someone you know unless you're on a night out. You can't seduce someone during the day, on the job, around college, etc.

If you want to try and make a move, (whatever type of move) it seems as if it HAS too be at a party, nite club, or bar. Of course you can get to know the girl elsewhere, joke with them, appear independent, etc, but not flatter! What other circumstances can one think of, (apart from what I mentioned) to make a first move.. if you ask a girl out she's going to say no, in fear of it being awkward and because it shows you care too much which looks insecure.

Only people over 25 are actually mature enough to go on a dates without having kissed previously! And if you're not drinking, then you're not in the zone and look like a snowman. Therefore, I find it hard to find situations to get girls that I like(even if they like me too) alone.

Indeed, it seems if you don't drink or dance.. you're SCREWED. If you disagree with what I said, or if you can think of any unorthodox stories of how you made a first move, feel free to let me know. Should I start drinking if I want to lose my virginity? I'm afraid I'll get hooked? I already find it hard to masturbate less than 3 times a week.. especially when I get stressed

 

you can always pretend to drink. just make sure she's doing it for real.

 

Pretending to drink is a very hard thing to do, and one can only concentrate on one thing at a time! And as I said, with the drink you might lack the confidence

 

Man this is full of a lot of bullshit. You know how many bars/clubs I've been to without drinking alcohol? A simple "I can't drink cause I'm in training" is the only explanation you need. You can even order cranberry juice on the rocks and it will look like you're drinking alcohol if you're that self conscious about it.

And to say you can't hook up with a girl unless it's in a bar/club is just crazy. I don't even like going to bars to pickup girls. Most girls I meet I don't meet them in bars. Most I've met through my work, school, etc. I think for most people it would be the same.

 

agreed:2thumbsup:

 

i wish. i work with a bunch of guys, and one obese 60 year old woman.

 

Lol. Work is a lot better for hooking up too if you get to travel and attend conferences and stuff.

 

I've been laid plenty of times without the need of drink.

 

True, but one should take warning that it can make already complicated business situations more complicated.

 

my hero.

yeah, but does having sex with someone ever simplify things? complication is basically just the cost of having sex.

 

How?

 

This thread's premise is total bullshit.

I've never been to a bar, and don't really care to change that. Haven't gotten laid a whole bunch or anything, but I'm pretty sure it's quite possibe.

I'm pretty sure most people who go to bars on the regular, especially looking for sex, are fucking wastes of life, and will give you herpies and children if you pick them up (or they pick you up).

You can meet someone nice, and nice looking, in all sorts of places. If you really feel the need for alcohol, offer to share a bottle of wine.... regardless of where it's going, most people would like to. (Not a snobby bottle, but a decent bottle, you know)

 

sure, but since every reasonable female over the age of 16 is engaged or married, the place where everybody is drunk is your best bet at convincing someone to cheat with you.

 

I don't drink but never have a problem getting sex when I want it and I am not even good looking. It is all a matter of having a nice sexual mojo and knowing how to move in a way you emit sexual vibes, subtly.

 

Please school me on the ways oh wise one... imp:

 

yeah if you're thinking like that, sure

if you just want to have that player attitude, you gotta live the player lifestyle bro

totally agree with RooRshack on this one, bullshit premise

if you actually want to, you know, make friends and have decent relationships, there's all sorts of places to go, and yes even college campuses are fine places to make friends. just because you don't get laid at "hello" doesn't mean anything...

 

i think that person's a female. so no shit they can get sex when they want it without drinking.

well he was talking about getting sex, not making friends that he will never have sex with.

wanting to not die a virgin is the the same as having a player attitude.

 

Those of you who believe that you can't simply make a friend and go from there, are every bit as fucked, if not considerably moreso than, the hopeless romantics.

You just don't have a realistic idea of how sexual relations with anyone who you will not hate (and who won't make you hate yourself) are going to happen.

It's true, there's logical gaps and such between the genders, but that's why you need to make friends, and try to bridge those gaps.

Stop being shut-in's.

Fucking go to the park, find a lonely looking girl with something cute on a leash, pet it, and offer to smoke a joint. If this fails, repeat. I bet you get laid faster than you do in a bar with a defeatist yet macho attitude.


The DEA and D.A.R.E. really are lieing to you, drugs make you cool and make you friends and let you have fun in otherwise un-fun situations. Everybody loves pot, or at least, in a lot of areas at least a third of the population does. Instant connection on something that's a whole lot of fun and that inherently builds relationships, and that ALSO makes people horny and greatly enjoy sex, without reducing judgement..... go smoke weed. And no, it's not the same as using drink, it's simply like finding girls who like anything else, like racecars...... except it's much faster, because everybody likes it and everybody will use it with you.

And yeah, go to a college, hang out in a library that belongs to the campus, but that's open to the community. You'll find all sorts of cool people, of all ages and all interests. Besides, they're at the library, they're all virgins too

 

Ah well yeah no shit! Of course any girl as she says can shake it in a way that emits sexy vibes to get laid. Impostor! What's she even doing in this thread?

Well, you do have a point there. I can't think of a time I smoked weed that I wasn't (or didn't end up) in a sexual situation.

 

i used to be pretty social. i only became a shut-in after befriending 10-20 women who refused to "go from there" because we were already friends.

also, i don't think i've ever seen a lonely looking girl in the park, and i work in the park.