well ive had enough of everyone fussing about em and theyre just not coming along like i would like for them to after 15 months...its my hair. before i dreaded my hair i hadn't brushed it in at least 3years and it never knotted up, so needless to say it was a task to get them to dread...and so it wasn't how i wanted them, especially since i was trying to do them small. blah its sad. i conditioned my hair forever in the shower and cut off the ends...boo hoo