getting mixed signals.. girls please help!!

ive been hanging with my friend beth more and more often lately.. i ended up staying the night at her house last night.. (no not in a sexual kinda way) we ended up staying up until 4 in the morning just shooting the shit.. it was super cool cause we are both really comfortable with each other.. her and i both are single and we both said that we are just wating for "the one" to come to us and fuck with looking.. would it be too forward to say hey how about you and I go out and give it a shot.. she also said that the last time i asked her out the only reason she said no was cuz she already had a bf.. if you girls could help that would be cool... ive just been having a hard time telling if she is interested or not.. she says were just friends but then flirts major with me.. i do a lot of the firting too.. thanks for the help

 

You're just a freind so give up

 

I say go for it. The girl sounds into you, and whats the worst that could happen?

She rejects and breaks your heart...

 

she def sounds into you most girls are just too shy to outwardly say it, but she seems like she brought it up with her remark.

 

didnt you make a post similar to this recently?

 

your right i did... this is more of an update.. i know im pathetic...please dont point and laugh..lol

 

Sure. What have you got to lose.

She could think of you as a friend {brother}, but if that turns out to be true you can still have an Elaine/Sienfeld relationship when she turns you down.

On the other hand, I think she's waiting for you to set up a safe situation, and make your move.

Sounds like you already missed an ideal situation, and if you don't move quick, she'll probably give up on you, and move on.

 

I would get a little wasted and just put the idea out there. Like, "what do you think it would be like if we went out?" or "this is so nice. why can't I find a girl like you?" and see how she reacts. If she seems into you, go for it, if not, just back off. No big deal. i'm sure if you guys are such good friends, she probably doesn't want to jeapordize that herself.

If it were me I'd ask for a friends with benefits thing, but that can't work for a lot of people so do what feels right.

 

yea if she said the onlyt reason she said no was because she had a bf, and she's waiting for the guy to come to her....those are two very obvious signs. go for it

 

here's kind of a similiar situation...There's a girl that I'm friends with and we have a very affectionate friendly relationship. Nothing overtly sexual.

Lately, she's been talking about wanting to tell people we're brother and sister, but that we're into incest. What does that mean?

Peace

 

maybe shes a true hippy and likes to go on freakouts, but i dunno, maybe she doesnt have a real brother... lol. Dude with orange sig and kmk in it, just tell her "be my girlfriend" cause procrastinating isnt going to help one bit.

 

i think thast the kmk symbol, been a few weeks since i seen it, if not then it looks similar.