My poet lover-person and I have come to an understanding -- we want space, and all that kind of thing, and then we might try again as "just friends." But meanwhile, I have all these warm cuddly feelings ... a wanderlust ... and know that spending time all alone will slowly drive me crazy. I have had ideas about hooking up with a fuck-buddy from old days and taking a road trip ... then coming back here with all that love and tenderness shit out of my system. Barring that, I will find another casual lover, and go from there. Do you think it is a good idea to "get it out of my system" this way, as long as the other party is just looking for a little no-strings fun and is up for it?