Apologies if this topic has already been discussed, but I was wondering if someone could give my girlfriend and me some advice on how to get my cock painlessly into her ass! I have had anal with two previous girlfriends, one was pretty experienced and it was fine so long as I pushed it in slowly to start. The other one was inexperienced, but probably just enjoyed the pain, knowing her! However, with my current gf I am having some problems. We have tried every now and again over the past three years or so, and have only really managed to get me inside once. Usually, we cannot get past the head of my cock, and have to abort because it is hurting her too much. We have tried using KY Jelly and Vaseline (both with condom). I am just over 6" in circumference at my widest, but 5.5" around the head (the problem area!). My girlfriend has such a beautiful ass, I just ache to get inside it! And she is very keen on the idea, but just cannot seem to relax enough to let me in. We would greatly appreciate any advice from an anal expert!
First of all, it just seems to be easier with some than others. In my experience, as a Bi-Sexual, I have always found it easier to penetrate females anally than males. I don't know if there is a physical biological reason for this, or if it's just been the luck of the draw. Secondly, and not quite on topic, but relative to the post - NEVER use Vaseline, or any form of petroleum based lubricant, with condoms as they can break down & weaken the molecular structure, thus causing them to split. KY is fine, as are most products sold specifically as lubricants as they are all water based.
I wouldn't know since I only tried to receive anal once and it was with a very thick friend and it hurt me for a couple of days. Could be you or perhaps she is not relaxed and loose enuf. I have pix of fisting. The anus can accommodate a lot (but not mine, thank you). So, logically, start with fingers and gently get used to something with less girth, then work up to comfort with your cock. BTW, I would think the nature of the head would not be a prob as it is just a big balloon with no erectile tissue and should just squeeze down. A hard shaft would likely will be more difficult to push in, hence you get the head in but no further.
if you shove it in really hard at first then the ass will lossen up on its own. trust me, i have had plenty experience.
" And hurt like hell ! " Take it slow for a while . Play around with your fingers and build up with some toys . Gradually build up over time to keep it pleasurable .
Get her some lube and a smooth dildo, no bumps, ridges or viens. Make sure it is a bit thinner than your dick, she can work it out at her own pace and be in control. After awhile her ass will loosen up and she will be more relaxed, and you'll be in with a grin. Cheers.
Thanks for all the advice folks- though I might need to practise my aim before taking the running start. I suppose it would be a bit like jousting!
Only try this if you never want to get your dick up her ass. "Surprise anal" doesn't work. She might deck you, and you'll probably never get near her ass again.
I agree with going slow and easy. If my husband would have shoved his penis in my ass the first few times we did it I would have hit him and never let him try again. EVER!! You have to go slow, use lots of lube, small toys whatever but be easy!
