So I’ve been masturbating since I was 12 or so. A solid 23 years of pleasuring myself. I’ve gone through stages where I’m bored with it so I’ll switch hands or use silicone sleeves, change positions, watch porn or don’t, read erotica etc etc etc but I feel like I’m running out of ideas. I’ve got anal toys that I use from time to time and my wife is WELL aware of them (she has bought me several of them) but I don’t feel comfortable using them when she’s around and that’s ALL THE TIME now since she works from home (thanks covid) So I guess what I’m asking is, does anyone have unusual techniques they’d like to share? At this point I’m open to damn near anything. If you’re worried about being judged please feel free to private message me. Thanks!
Try sounding rods? I've never tried it yet. Some people love it. Does look kind of cool. You've tried a lot of things so trying to be creative for you.
Well... like you I also got bored with it. I was in a sexless, dead marriage for over 10 years. My work hours were about an hour and a half earlier than hers, so that hour and a half I beat off while watching porn. 5 days a week. Week after week, month after month, year after year. I got bored with it. Then I stumbled upon a cam site. Not the corporate ones with 200 models you have pay for... fuck that... a small website that usually would only have maybe 50 people online at a given time. I found I liked being watched. A lot. Then the first time with a woman watching.... oh hell... that is exhilarating. Still do it now. You might try that.
I’ve been masturbating regularly for 56 years now, and I can’t imagine how it could ever become boring. Instead of porn, try creating your own imaginary narratives to masturbate to. No matter how weird or perverted they seem to be, entertain them anyway. What goes on inside your head can’t hurt anybody. So celebrate your whatever twisted thoughts turn you on, but celebrate privately. Slow your stroking down and savor the sensations your penis experiences, as well as the sensations your hand experiences. Revel in the notion that G-d gave you a penis for your pleasure and enjoyment. Moan and groan as you stroke — maybe even chant, “Oh my penis!” And breathe deeply from your belly. If, as you stroke, you are imagining having sex with some real or imagined partner, try to piece together in the touch-processing of your mind what that partner would be experiencing. Try using a dry lube like corn starch. It has a delightful velvety feel and you don’t have to deal with it drying out (and it’s cheap, so use as much as you like). Long before you climax, try to create in your mind the sensation of jizz gushing through your urethra. Long minutes of anticipating that feeling makes it all the more deeply satisfying when it happens. But keep the stroking slow while you do. See if you can achieve climax by stimulating only your scrotum and perineum, resisting the urge to stroke your penis. Think about the brotherhood you will momentarily join of all the human males in the world who reach climax at the same moment you do — they number in the thousands. And savor every millisecond of every climax.
