Our routine usually had me spanking and vibrating the wife to several orgasms before she services me. She has severe issues with being penetrated by anything due to vaginal issues. Getting old isn't fun, so my release is usually a hand job, while she reddens my bottom, or a bj after the spanking. my favorite is to lie on my back, with her blowing me while a spank her bottom with a thick leather tawse. She's Scottish decent, so it's fitting her bum gets warmed with it! It's just the most erotic thing having her moan from the spanks as she's sucking on me. She'll usually get the vibrator going again after I finish and have an explosive orgasm as I beat her bottom hard with the tawse as she leans on the bed. It's just heaven watching her cum in this way. I've also caned her, with me kneeling on the bed, she lies on her tummy, while she sucks me off. Very erotic. Anyone else try similar? Cheers.