Me and me GF have been having problems with sex lately. When we first started dating, she would try anything. She let me fuck her in the ass. she licked my ass. Ive been trying to cummunicate more and let her know how I feel like somethings missing that we used to have, I even bought a sex book with 100 great new positions to try. Weve started to see each others points and this weekend had some amazing sex. She used to let me do her anal and she enjoyed it. She had orgasms from it.. Then , it just ended. she said it hurt and didnt want to do it again. But I know she has enjoyed it in the past. So this weekend while trying some new positions and suggestions from this book I wound up fucking her with my finger up her ass. She had some intense orgsms. After the second or third tiime when she was getting close to cumming again she told me to stick my finger in her ass. I had 2 fingers about 2 knuckles deep inside her ass while my dick was in her vagina. but as I slowly moved my fingers she was reacting to that way more than anthing my penis was doing. And I was pretty deep inside her. I could feel how relaxed her muscles were and it turned me on so much the way she was getting off on it. I swear, If I had a second dick to just put in her ass she wouldnt have known the difference and probably enjoyed it more. Its when I remove my penis from her vagina she regains her concentration, and tightens up and that makes anal penitration painful. So, I like anal and try to encourage her to play with my ass too. She obviously likes the feeling of having things inserted into her ass,( as she asked for it) and it makes her cum so fast and hard. So how do we proceed to get to the next step... I swear she just has a mental block that makes her contract those muscles. Im not pressuring her daily or anything, but I ask every month or two. Im sure she would like to do it just to please me, or bribe me.... and i know once im inside her she enjoys it, because weve done it before. Is there any tips to help with initail insertion. should I just keep fingering her ass until she gets more used to it? any women have any pointers to make insetion go smoother? any mind exercises to relax those muscles like when she is really turned on?
Have you thought of getting a nice phat dildo to fill up her pussy while you fill her ass? You can insert it yourself or let her do it an be in charge while you get busy. Or if you're sneaky you could slip it in during sex instead of your cock (warm it up first) then surprise her with your magical extra cock in her ass, that just happens to be your real one. If she freaks out over this "double penetration" then you could warm her up by using the dildo in her ass while you keep filling her pussy. She'll probably get used to it, enjoying the "extra stuffed feeling" and eventually you'll be able to do it the other way around (although usual precautions about not getting "contaminated" anal toys/cocks into vaginas apply - use condoms on your toys/cock if this is a problem so you can switch at least once). You can probably get a smaller dildo for her ass at first - one specially designed for anal use is better then you can slide it in to the flared base and not have to worry about it disappearing all the way up by accident. Good luck - sounds like you are not far from lots of awesome anal again!
I agree with zarniwoop, you need a dildo for her pussy, it's that simple. Like zarniwoop you could do it from the back, and pull the old switch-eroo. I am sure that it's just mental, she might need double penetration for satisfaction. Just having one or the other may not give her what she needs. Go to the adult store tonight, get a dildo, put that shit in her pussy, and stuff that ass until she comes on your dick, then filler her ass with your cum.
