get a girl to notice you...

hi i know this girl and i have never been attracted to anyone more than i am to her . honestly i thinbk about her all the time , she is abolutly beautiful. but she doesnt know me i am in her class and she knows whjo io am she has said like a few little things to me but nothing really what do i do to get her to notice me bause i wanna at least be friends with her but i cant just approach her like hey whats up...

 

Dude, honestly, yer can aproach her.....don't matter how intimidated yer feel, or how beautiful someone is, they all human.....and humans love to talk

think up three subjects to talk about, to stop yerself gettin' tongue-tied and seem windswept and interesting.....put on yer nicest face....and talk to her

 

i cant just go up and be like ... hey whats up, have you seen dukes of hazard? hahaha, that would be stupid idk it seems awkward if i just went up to her before class and said something random "hey how was the homework in this class?" hahahaha, man idk

 

Is there something wrong with telling a girl you find her beautiful and fascinating? I always love to hear it, wouldn't you? Even if she turns you down the first time, you're still on her mind--girls do change their minds once in a while...

I hate it when guys are nervous and timid around me.

 

of course yer can....he who dares, wins...and all that bollocks

seriously, just go for it......even if yer fall on yer arse and she walks away...yer'll know one way or another...if not, it's a lifetime of wondering innit?

 

hahaha in response to novaone i have never really talkted to her i am not gonna be like "hey what's up i think you are absolutly beautiful!" hahaha that would be so awkward for me and her what does she say "ha uhm thanks..."

 

Give her a chance to say what she wants--girls know how to handle these things. If you're sincere, she'll be flattered no matter what.

You need to say something like, "Hi, I'm [insert your name here]. I've been admiring you all year and I want to say that I think you're a beautiful and special person and I'd be delighted if you'd have lunch with me; I know a great place right down the street--you'll love it!"

 

are you sure that would be appropriate wording and activity for 16 year olds?

 

well, i think you can reword that in your own lingo, but the idea's the same. just don't be crushed if she says no. there's a million reasons why someone says no, not all of them have to do with whether or not you're good enough. and sometimes the reason why isn't really your business. i've been turned down so many times it's scary, but the answer is ALWAYS no if you don't ask.

 

well i always thought the idea was become friends frist asking her out right away isnt really doing that, it like shows that you like her right away

 

This is a boy/girl thing we're dealing with here. Romance, love, affection, respect, and friendship combined. I want to be wanted as a woman by a man and I'm sure the love of his eye wants that too.

 

damn you are beautiful

 

haha i'm 16 and know exactly how you feel. you wanna talk to this girl and ask her out, but if you get rejected everyone will taunt you and remind you about it.


as for advice..........i'm in your situation and appreciate that getting told "just tell her she's beautiful" isn't really the most practical advice as it is so awkward to say to someone that doesn't know you.

try to find out something that you both have in common, then talk to her about it.

 

Thank you! <3

 

Dude, make sure you talk alot - but about HER! You'll win her heart faster being interested in her, than getting her interested in you - just a well known point.

 

haha alright ill try hahah i guess we will see tomorrow... uh oh haha

 

hey oh btw i was sitting there and I wrote something like basically it is something saying she was beautiful and i drew her i was just sitting there bored hahaha and i was wondering if it was a bad idea or good idea to like stuff it in her locker hahaha it sounds really stupid but idk

 

it didnt have my name on it btw

 

No, I don't think so.

You just have to talk to her like you'd talk to anybody. Believe it or not, girls talk exactilly the same way guys do, and 80% of the time about the same subjects as guys do.

 

yeah, I'm sorry, I'd probably be a little creeped out by that unless I'd been lusting after that person as well. I'm sure it works great for some chicks, just not me.

and to the OP, you'd mentioned wnating to be friends with her before asking her out. NO! Us chicks tend to put people into the friend category and rarely remove them from that box.

I would just go up to her and ask her how things are going, or if she's in any school groups you could join maybe ask her some info about that, if she's taking any courses this term you'll take next term ask for some pointers on how to handle them so far. Something pretty casual like. I wouldn't bother with movies as the first line though, since if they haven'tn seen it yet or disliked it, you're kinda in sol

oh yeah, and don't say "idk" when you talk to her if at all possible