Gay, Bi, or Confused?

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by SpiceyKiss, Jun 7, 2011.

  1. SpiceyKiss

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    Hello everyone,
    I recently had an experience with a woman. It started out in a virtual world, online. Now, I have had her at my house and i enjoyed every minute of her being with me. My family doesn't know that I like women, i didnt know that i would...til now. Do i tell them that i'm gay?
     
  2. SpiceyKiss

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    BTW I'm over 30 years old
     
  3. Calibound

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    Have you slept with her yet? If so, did you like it? Was it better than any man?

    If not, do you feel more connected to her by just hanging out than you ever did with a man?
     
  4. erzebet1961

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    I'd wait on the outting thing till you know for sure that it wasnt just something about her.
     
  5. SpiceyKiss

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    yes, Calibound...i slept with her....she was much like a man, but i enjoyed it all. I have feelings for her, yes.
    I just feel confused for my feelings.
    Erzebet, thank you, I think i want her, and only her
     
  6. erzebet1961

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    No problem baby , I wish yall so much happiness !!!
     
  7. SpiceyKiss

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    How do I confess?....... My daughter who told me when she was 15, that she liked girls. I didnt take it well. I told her that I would not pay for her to go to prom with a girl, cuz i didnt approve. Now, she came into our home and broke the laptop of my friend, what now?
     
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    I dont think having gay sex is like going to a new restaurant and you have to tell every member of your family how good it is..

    Maybe, you should wait til you have eaten there a few times.. :D
     
  9. SpiceyKiss

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    I need to talk with someone :-{
     
  10. SpiceyKiss

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    That made me smiile, Thank yo!
     
  11. SpiceyKiss

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    IDK what to do now, me and my daughter has fought over this. Sighs
     
  12. Thedawg

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    I agree with orizon319...can't think of any reason to make a public announcement just yet. Give it time, and if it works out, there is plenty of time in the future to make your feelings known.
     
  13. erzebet1961

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    well.....I kinda came out when I was 13 , my mom knew already , but my dad and his wife pretend to this day that they dont know , and dont talk about it.
    I never actually TOLD anyone.....I guess it was just obvious in the way i acted.
    Just because you dont tell folks doesnt mean your lying , it just means that you consider your sex life PRIVATE
     
  14. erzebet1961

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    Tell your daughter that YOU are the parent , and you are old enough to do what YOU want.
    God knows you cant help who you fall in love with

    HELL.....My daughters had a spell over the fact that my lady love is WAY younger than me.......guess what....ITS MY LIFE , they are grown , and Im going to see to me now.
     
  15. SpiceyKiss

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    Thank you so much for kind words and encouragement!:sunny:
     
  16. Calibound

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    Ohh my god!! This is like me and my mother on replay.

    I came out in the 7th grade. Mom disowned me for a spell and sent me to a psychiatrist who told her nothing was wrong with me and she was being a complete ass. Mom got pissed cause the shrink didn't agree with her and didn't make me go anymore.

    Fast forward......Her and her husband slip up recently because he beat the hell outta me while he was drunk. Mom decides she wants try out the ladies :)

    We have so much in common.
     
  17. transvalescent

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    i have this friend who well he's schizophrenic but he's on this i'm gay trip....he's also been known to collect his own feces, batteries, and well he collects everything from allergy medicine to you name it...like i said he's schizo. my question is this could a person be confused about being gaye? his therapist says homosexuality stems from a lack of bond with mother and he's in no position to argue seeing as how his mother passed away when he was an infant...?
     
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