Is there a way that i can gape my asshole to make it stay like that, have a sloppy asshole and that i can put the biggest 18inch dildo in with no problem, even if it includes damaging a muscle... im okay with it. Also id like to know how to rosebud..
I would be very careful about damaging your sphincter muscle ! If it is stretched beyond its capabilities then you may have a problem containing your feces I have mine stretched out so i can comfortably take 3 3/4 inch diameter butt plug ! My sphincter will still tighten up and close my asshole tight after a couple of hours ! I love the looks of my stretched hole when my asshole lips are swollen,loose and protruding !
When my wife pegged me, at first we started with small dildos and over time slowly worked up to larger ones. Lol, just everything else in life, practice, practice
A friend described the consequences to the muscle tome of His wife's ass hole. She was bordering on nymphomania. That's not to say all who do this are, but her situation had her throw caution to the wind. He had a hell of a time keeping her satisfied. He had several male friends come and service her regularly. The thing is, she took it up her ass so much that they had to see a doctor. She was starting to lose muscle control in her anus and was a bit incontinant. There was a real risk, that the muscles would lose tension altogether and she would have to wear incontinence undergarments. This is so sad. He r vagina took one hell of a pounding but it it meant to so she had to abandon taking it anally. She had full permission to have sex with any of these chosen friends any time she wanted it, which was whenever one or two came visiting.
Even refraining from anal sex of some or any kind doesn't mean the anus will keep from losing its ability to close. Injuries to the spinal cord, diabetes, inflammatory issues, tumors, hemorrhoids. organ prolapse, and obstetric injuries can fuck up the anus and let shit leak out. It's best to enjoy anal sex as an occasional fetish and let the ass heal after. Yes, the anus and rectal cavity needs time to heal after being invaded unnaturally as with a dildoe or cock. Lube will make penetration comfortable, even pleasurable, but the muscles tear when stretched beyond their limits. They need time to heal properly.
So I’ve had a lot of cocks in my bum this year and have only had two times where the gape and lack of feeling lasted a day. I do get checked by my doctor regularly and she said it’s still healthy down there but did warn me most people who do a lot of anal will lose muscle control at some point
IDK. One of my friends won't take me back there but she takes her other partners and she has a toy in her bottom every time we get together. She's in her 50's and so far as I know, she's been taking men and toys in her bum for many years. Maybe she's the exception but so far, no problems. Well, the problem is she won't let me ass fuck her. We tried once for about ten seconds apart from me, she loves getting filled.
I’ve been using toys in my butt for decades without problems but I stick with realistic sized vibratiors for the most part. A good 1.5 “ dia vibrating dildo with 5” of penetration is my sweet spot. My biggest butt plug is 1.6” dia. I have a big 2” dia dildo that I use sometimes ant it’s enough to gap me. I definitely feel lose for a while after. That’s as big as I’d want to go on a regular basis but I’d be up for something bigger as an occasional kink. I don’t think the pleasure really increases though, it’s more the thrill of having something that big inside me. I involve my anus everytime I masturbate but all I really need is a penis sized vibratior Suction cuped to the shower wall .
