Is it in fact a place. I'm a little young, and I'm a guy. But I'm sorta convinced that looking for the G-spot is a little bit like hunty for lochy.
hunty for lochy!!! aahahahha! to be perfectly honest, when dave's doing his search and massage, i feel a bit like a biology lesson, not like a lover.
I've heard people say that before, but thats anecdotal. Gynecologists have been looking for it for 65 years and never found it. It's pretty easy to see where nerve endings are. So in my opinion, it's not a place, but rather a sensation, which precedes orgasm. And the place is used to sell a lot of books. Bringing a woman to orgasm isn't *usually* a problem but I still suggest it's like looking for treasure.
I've heard some women say that they don't have one...which I just assume they mean theirs isn't all that sensitive. There is a sensitive spot that is obviously common to a lot of women, but as far as whether a gyno can find it or not...idk.
it's amazing how often i see some guy online questioning women's sexuality. if it's not that they don't believe women orgasm, it's that they don't believe in the g-spot, or that they don't believe there are any nerves in the uterus or some stupid fucking thing. geezuz!
whatever. the point is that the endless search for the female "penis head" is ridiculous. shit is gonna feel good or not. but whenever people go looking for my "g-spot" way more valuable stuff goes ignored. all i feel is that i have to go pee. i've got no problem with needing to go pee, but i don't see why female sexuality has to be any more mystical than it already is.
Uh, a lot of the medical community is on my side with this one lady. I love women, but there bodies aren't 'magic'. No reason to get hostile because of my question. Nor is questioning something that the scientific community and the gynecological community largely disputes, but the majority of women say exists... the same as the ludicrous comparisons you made. There's no reason for that amount of hostility. There just aren't nerve clusters found in current medical literature associated with the 'g' spot. Theres no reason for the hostility.
Should only women ask questions about female sexuality? Because I've met women who say theres no g-spot. If one woman says there is and another woman says there isn't neither is right because of that claim. And I'm not saying it isn't real. Simply my POV.
i don't know why the hell you're bringing 'magic' into the discussion. the medical community has routinely denied the existence of the clitoris and the female orgasm. throughout the ages, the medical community has done a lot of stupid shit. we all know that. half the time they can't find their ass with both hands...
I don't know if there's a Gspot, but different angles definitely work better than others. What I suspect is that you can't find it until the clitoris is already enlarged from arousal. So caressing it, whether with fingers or penis, is useful to get a girl off, but not to get her aroused. As to the location... I think aim directly for the underside of the clit through the wall!
yes there is one. different bodies feel things differently. from what i've read and tried myself.. if you put a finger into the vagina and do the "come here" motion.. you'll feel a spot thats a slight bump under the tissue there on the inside of the pelvic bone. i had to experiment a lot before finding it. makes you almost feel as if you have to go pee.. but you don't really. just keep rubbing it untill.. WHOA! don't you people read books? geez.. even i figured this one out with thanks to the library!
there's no "kinda" about it. you rub that "spot" on me and i'll pee on you. that's cool, if that's what you're into, but it doesn't make my orgasm any stronger. basically you're rubbing an area that leads directly to the bladder when it's enlarged. i've often had way better sex when i've had a full bladder than when i haven't. it pushes agains the bladder, which in turn presses on the internal part of the clitoris. it's a sort of indirect clitoral stimulation. but it's not a special cluster of nerves.
That was what I had suspected. Good answer. Some of the responses were so vauge I thought someone was going to tell me it was a place I had to find in my heart. Thanks for the answer KC. I feel like I'm a better lover for talking to you.
uhm... indeed. you're not suppose to necessarily pee when someone's feeling your g-spot though. you will definately have the sensation to need to but you can hold it in... ugh its so lame when sex goes unappreciated. :/
try having a couple children and then have someone rubbing incessantly on that spot, bongwater. i appreciate sex so much it's ridiculous, but the g-spot is a mental crutch for too many women.
