Need a little bit of opinion and advice on a subject. What do you think would be the most effective way to go about trying to have a sexual encounter with a woman who was either married or in an established relationship? I think the latter would be easier and more likely. This is not something I'm completely inexperienced at. I had an ongoing thing with a married woman over a decade ago, but it was essentially hooked up by a friend of mine. He introduced us with the hopes we would get together and she would have the gumption to leave a toxic marriage. It didn't work out that way. I did learn from the experience. I really do think that cheating is more common than I imagined when I was younger. There was time when was somewhat naive, and if a found out a woman had a boyfriend, in my mind that was an automatic do not pass go, do not collect 200 dollars. Now I know that is not a definite and that sex still might be a possibility if the circumstances are right. Two women who are attached have recently caught my eye, one is "in a relationship" the other I am not sure if she is married or not. 1. The first one is a slender, leggy, brunette. She works at a lending office in which I took out a loan and am in the process of paying back. She does the preening hair flip while she talks to me. I also notice she has a tounge stud. The times I have had a woman go down on me who happened to have a tounge stud, I didn't think it enhanced the experience. I felt like it was in the way. But to me, seeing the tounge stud is a possible indicator she might be wild. It stands in contrast to the rest of her attire, business, think of a good looking, stylish bank teller. When I saw the tounge ring I did start to fantasize about her going down on me. The difficulty with this one is that are interaction is all so brief. 2. The second one is a co-worker at a job I've recently started. She's blonde about medium height, and more cute than hot. She's friendly, and I notice an amount of sexual inuedo coming out of her mouth. This is often an indicator of a sexually focused mind. It(sex) appears to be on her brain. Initial interaction she said something that I knew she was jokingly being untruthful about. I told her I knew because her body language and she turned her head away not making eye contact with me. She then turns her head back, making sure to lock eyes with me and noting that's what she was doing. I told her to watch out she might get hypnotized. She is leaning forward putting her cleavage on display during this exchange. It's a food related job, one day I was cooking bratwurst and she mentions "wieners" with a big smile on her face. This is the type of woman that I get a hard on around as soon as she enters the room and we start talking. If you desired both of these women, how would you go about trying to get something going?
Young men had success with my wife by flirting with her when they called on her office, They were medical product sales reps, and she arranged to meet them at medical conventions in other cities. Of course, she let me know what was going on and had my permission. Flirting and flattery went a long way with her.
Thanks for sharing that bit of info. It makes sense with flirting, just follow along the trajectory that is already in motion. One of them I mentioned is pretty flirty, so with her, my plan is to keep flirting with and gradually turn up the heat until the time is right to exchange numbers or something and hopefully set up a rendezvous.
Just wondering if your looking too much into those two ladies. The first example is of a lady just doing her job. They have to be friendly and professional. The second lady just sounds flirty to me .No different than myself. It's just a game and she could be stringing you along.