so the other day it was my buddy of mines b-day so as you know we planned on getting slamed i had alcohol up the ass. So before we started drinkin we had to pick up this girl cause she was staying at his house so we picked her up went back and started drinkin right away. So were slammed and shit and my buddy likes this girl and me knowing it makes out with her and shit and he flips had to sleep outside and shit not cool. So the next night i told my girlfriend and she started crying and all i can say is this is the one occasion that it was blamed on alcohol.But see my girlfriend doesnt get that and seeing that i said sorry and told her straight forward she still wont accept the apologies and whatever....So advice here on what i should do to get her back?
Well first you should tell your girlfriend that it wasn't the alcohol's fault, but yours. And you just need to show her that she is the only girl for you and that you would never do anything to hurt her in anyway.
I agree with the above... I have been plastered many of times, and never accidently slept with someone.. All you can do is tell her and leave it up too her...
yea man, i agree....but i would elaborate a lil bit....tell her that you stopped when you "called her your g/f's name" and realized what you were doing and got all depressed and started crying....lol....those kinda lines have worked in the past
Nooo! Don't lie! My boyfriend just slept with someone else he didn't even know. There's nothing he can say to make me feel better. He could help by taking me out and doing something to get my mind off it, since it's the only thing I can think about. But he doesn't. He should. You should. Treat her extra special for a while until it isn't killing her. It really hurts to find out that you can't trust someone you love like you thought you could.
I don't necessarily mean go out and spend lots of money or whatever. Just give her the extra attention that she deserved all along to reassure her that you're not a slimy, two timing bastard.
Sorry to hear that happened to you too. I can't believe this guy says, essentially, make up a bullshit lie to help convince your girlfriend that you're a good guy worth staying with! Is that what the world is about, now? Just lie to get your way, lie to the people you supposedly love, lie lie lie because it's easier than facing the truth. WTF?! And then this guy who thinks lying is the answer has the gall to put an anti-Bush sig on his post. What the fuck do you think YOU have over Bush if you stand here advocating LIES yourself?! Blue skies, -Jeffrey
Requiem, I sure hope for your sake that your girlfriend doesn't do what mine did in college when I made the stupid-ass mistake of cheating on her: she went and slept with some guy at her school to make us even! What could I do, get angry? I had asked for it. We got back together and pretty much put it behind us (hell, we were 19 years old!) but it was a crazy time. I had been totally sober when it happened, with a girl I knew from my dorm. She came in one cold Sunday morning, my room was freezing, and she came in socially. I let her in, got back under the covers, and so did she. We just "spooned" together for a bit and then I started groping her and then we ended up doing the rest. I immediately felt so guilty about it! I kinda freaked out for the rest of the day. I prayed for forgiveness in the shower (felt kinda purifying) and then went on a long aimless drive. I got back and called my girlfriend on the phone and admitted to her what she could NEVER have ever found out about! Some people eventually said I was stupid, that since she could never have known, I should have just learned my lesson, never did it again, and moved on. I couldn't do that. I knew that some day, years from then, she could ask me something like, "Have you always been faithful to me?" And what would I then have to do? LIE to her? Or tell her that I'd been hiding it all along? So it broke us up for a while, and I had to wait to win her back. Time really was what healed it, plus we had a pretty strong connection so that helped. Every girl is going to be different, though. Some won't EVER take a guy back. What if she's been cheated on before by other guys? Maybe she's had experience that makes her less forgiving than a girl who's never been cheated on at all. It's up to her. You blew it. Accept the fact that you essentially own zero in this relationship right now, until and unless she decides to forgive you. If that happens, you start again, and with a strike against you. Consider yourselves broken up unless she tells you otherwise, because you gave up any claim to her when you messed around. I'll say this, though: if all you did was MAKE OUT, it should be a lot less difficult for her to forgive you, I think. It's not nothing, but it's not as bad as fucking someone else. Good luck. I hope you live up to any forgiveness she might offer you. Don't screw up again. Learn from the mistake. Blue skies, -Jeffrey
if you remember enuff of the night to know you made out with the girl, it wasnt the alcohol....................... be honest with her and dont blame it all on alcohol.........
