I have a small penis, sad but true. Two types of people think that's funny, guys with big dicks,girls who like big dicks. I don't know why we're treated like lepers, especially by the ladies , fuck because of our short fall don't we try harder than any other group to get girls off? I would say many of us wouldn't consider our own pleasure or hesitate to do anything to get a girl to orgasm, why? Because our self esteem is linked to you getting off!! Laugh at us with your friends, by all means, but for fucks sake take the time to advantage of us 'cause there's a sad guy with a small dick some where waiting to work his ass off to get you off!! One other thing, you won't have to put up with the big dick ego, gotta be worth somethin!!
cool. i once slept with a guy who had a really small dick and yeah he was working his ass off to please me, but it was all too much and in the end seemed kinda desperate which was a big turn off. it's such a sad story.
yeah, little guy complex is way up there with big-dick ego as major attitude i wouldn't wanna put up with. that big chip on the shoulder is very unattractive. and it's not just a stereotype, it really happens. it's all to do with the attitude. last time i was with a guy with a small one, he had the attitude that he was the king of oral or something. he seemed to think he was giving me so much pleasure i should pay for his gas to come to my house, take him out to dinner, let him break my house rules when he was visiting, etc. ridiculous. and no, he definitely wasn't that good. but then, no one is.
i don't mean to be non-supportive of guys who struggle with issues of rejection for a physical trait over which they have no control. i have alot of compassion about that situation, and would absolutely not reject a man over his penis size alone. but i do aim to be honest. and in my experience the guy who's 'working his ass off' to please a woman is only going to please her if he's giving her what she wants. so just make sure you're not doing what you think should please her and then going all martyr on her. like in the example i gave above, that guy was doing something he obviously didn't really want to do to please me, and it showed. he was only doing it because he felt like he had to. we had only been seeing each other for a matter of weeks when he started hinting around that i should buy special chairs or pillows (expensive ones) to make it easier and more comfortable for him to give oral. then he started hinting around that i should compensate him in other ways as i already mentioned. sorry guys. sex is supposed to be a reciprocal thing, you give me pleasure and i return the favor. this guy was in essence acting like he wanted me to compensate him for being less than blessed by nature, therefore making himself an even less desirable partner. how i feel about it is, if you want to whore yourself or extract emotional compensation for being 'shortchanged' from me, you're in the wrong place. so anyways - if you really want to please a woman, you might want to ask yourself 'am i doing what she enjoys?', 'am i ruining her pleasure by acting like i don't really enjoy it?', and 'am i expecting something more than being sexually pleasured in return for giving sexual pleasure?'
if you have a small dick, use your finger, then use your tongue, then fuck her guts out, or try those pills on those infomercials, Extendo or some shit... or you can get a dick pump,.. hahaha i dont kno homie. My bad im sorry about that.
sounds unfortunate. But I see what you are saying and think it noble you work extra hard despite these "short" comings.Sorry had too..lol
Point taken, I'm not for one minute trying to convince anyone that guys that are short changed have some inherent ability as great lovers, but just wanted to say something positive about a disadvantaged group.I just think this group has a tendency to say "little" simply because of the shame associated with it.It's like we've got a handicap that can never be talked about , cursed in some ways and yet I think my shame has made more sympathetic to other peoples needs........ so I guess it's made me the person I am....I'm happy
well, that is an example of taking a handicap and turning it into a good thing. and that's great. sometimes there are lessons to be learned in life from being disadvantaged for sure. and compassion is one of them. but you are making a personal choice not all men in your predicament choose to make, i can assure you. you could have become resentful, hateful and spiteful like other men do. good on you for making the better choice. the woman who gets you will be very lucky indeed.
how can a guy have a small penis......i'm confused lol.. sorry but i'm not massive, nor small but for some reason girls seem like ''you shouldn't be shy with that thing!...BE PROUD!'' i'm like wow! lol..... sorry...but how big are you? =/
If I was really small I think I would become a monk because that part of my life would most likely continue to be unfulfilled unless a way to help my situation was found, what ever that would be. I think penis size is like the NBA. NO you don't have to be tall to be really good, there are only a few individuals who are really short and good players, but it is rare. But then, it does not hurt to be really tall, some people rely on their height to be good, most people that are good are not short. Then there are the seven footers who suck, and it does not matter if they are tall or not.They lack heart, and skill and their size does not compensate for this. So in the end size isn't everything but it doesn't hurt. Then again, I'm not a female so wouldn't know.
Whoa sugar!! I think you just made my day, you sure is sweet for sayin that, Well to be honest I'm no saint, it took me a long time to get to this place,....so how big am I, even here I'm too ashamed to say.... What I can say is I am quite a big guy , I know alot of guys are intimidated by my size gotta laugh , if only they knew! Anyway 'cause I'm so big I look really funny naked.
Eframe says he is really big but has a small penis. Many guys who are overweight have a lot of fat around their midsection which makes it look like they have a small penis. Tall, skinny guys get to show what they've got to their best advantage because they have thin legs and hips and no fat hiding their package. So eFrame may not be as small as he thinks.
How many of these guys with big dicks have you seen? Exactly. The only thing you need for the ladies is confidence. Everyone is insecure about their bodies but it is the lack of confidence that is the turn off.
I totally agree. Even if you have a small one two fingers, usually add up to a good size penetration.
Fat, I wish, I could do something about that, I like working out I'm not a fitness freak I just like being ripped,..... I am what I am, I have a physical and psychological handicap and like any person in that situation how I handle it defines me as a person. I'm no worse off than than anyone who gets crushed by a throw away line that someone used to get a laugh. This may seem selfish, but I wanted to see someone say " look at me I've got a small dick, and proud of it, and just in case you're interested I'm a shit hot fuck!!" Well....... sometimes ya just got to do things yourself!!
haha...speaking of fat, when a man gets fatter does his penis get fatter too? inquiring minds want to know.
