it changes people. seriously. i understand going inpatient if youre completely a crack head or heroin addict or on the verge of dying or killing someone else or something. BUT otherwise, it's rediculous. I was in rehab this summer and it sucked. My best friend just came back from being inpatient for smoking weed and cutting class, my other friend is in rehab because she didn't want to live with her parents any more and so they put her in a psych ward, and my other realllly good friend is in "anger management" rehab for punching a hole in the wall. WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON. it's insane. Like someone will go missing for a month or two and everyone's just like "oh, they got sent to rehab". Whyyyyy is this happening. I understand they kind of fucked up but hell rehab doesn't solve everything. Everyone's so different when they get out. Like talks differently, thinks in like "rehab" terms like idk my friend was like "i might still smoke weed once in a while...but not for a long time. Actually I'm not even going to, that was just the addiction talking" WHAT THE FUCK. I hate that. "the addiction" doesn't fcking talk, it's YOU I dunno. fuck the system.
It seems that alot of times parents are just getting lazier and need to learn how to be parents. Now sometimes it is the child but alot of the time you can see how the kid mirrors their upbringing in one way or another.
Yeah, it's definitely the parents. I can count he friends I know that went to rehab/ psych ward on one hand. But the reasons include acid induced delusions (after the acid had worn off), coke addiction, suicide, PTSD, and several overdoses. It's really trendy right now to go to rehab and have your slate washed clean but your friends seem like they need good ol' mom or dad to kick them in the ass rather than rehab. It sucks being under 18 because your parents have full legal right to have you admitted against your will. But yeah, it seems like the parents are just getting lazy. I'm sorry about your friends, I don't what to tell you other then things get better when you're over 18.
not just in that way. like i understand coming out of rehab and not doing drugs and having a more positive outlook i guess. but my best friend i cant' even talk to her anymore. she's so different. she just talks in like rehab terms and all she talks about is being sober, and when we're just hanging out she's not even fun anymore she's just like silent and boring.
its all part of the idiot ecosystem. theres the natural, and theres the moronic. majority of humanity falls under moronic.
what were u in rehab for? if you say marijuana im guna walk up to the person who decided that and snap their neck
The closest I ever came to rehab was some drug counseling thing. A couple other kids that got caught at my old school were there. Some guy who was 17 came in and told a story about how he was addicted to marijuana... I asked him if his parents knew he was and he said that they did... Then I asked them if they smoked and he said no. Then I asked "so were have you been getting the money to buy your drugs?" He said his parents.. So then I told him that the only problem was that his parents were clearly fucked in the head (I didnt say it like that to him) because if they knew he was "addicted" to marijuana why the hell would they keep giving him money for it? The counselour looked at me like I just cracked the atom and told me to stop interupting... But in regards to your story, didn't you say your friend was a coke head? If that was the case then I say some form of rehab was the right decision.
the reason your friend doesnt talk or do anything anymore is because they became coke.. if ya catch my drift.. the way they were was influenced by coke.. their life probably revolved around it and you could tell when they weren't on it.. give the person time to adjust to being sober.. talking about being sober is not a bad thing.. and dont stop hanging out with them because you think they are boring.. be a friend and a supporter.. because if they start getting ignored they will just think "well my friends liked me when i did coke" and bam.. sattle up seabiscuit
no matter what the age... every place should have a rehab program.. if someone has a problem.. they need people to help them
holy shit man sorry to hear about your friends "actually no i wont, thats just the addiction talking" man if i ever said anything like that I would personally ask my friends to beat the shit out of me
She did coke a lot freshman year but she hasn't done it in like over a year and she says she doesn't even crave it, like once we were going to do coke and she was like nah i don't feel like it. I was sent to rehab cause I was on speed so they thought i was anorexic and for smoking weed, and because they thought i had "post traumatic stress disorder" or some shit, i dunno. But personally I think 15 is too young to have to be sober for the rest of your life, thats just fucked up, especially if she obviously got over her coke addiction without rehab. I don't even think she told the rehab people she used to do coke.
yeahh. Another thing I hate about it is people get sooo like, i dunno. Like if they're kind of upset, they feel the need to let everyone know how they're feeling. like cause I guess in rehab they say not to hide your feelings. But now ALLL my friend talks about is how fucked up her life is and how she's sad and depressed and miserable. A lot of people are depressed. Sure it isn't good to always pretend to be happy when you're not, but JESUS no one wants to hear you whine all day.
^^^ ya know... if ya think life sucks at 15... ya might as well just off yourself, it doesnt get any easier with age