Fuck buddy

Anybody have one? No strings just sex. How did you meet? How did you get to the subject?

 

I wish, but no luck here

 

What are you looking for?

 

several, started out as friends and just started fucking

 

Right now I could be good with about anything, it’s been a long time here

 

Same here

 

Great! It could be fun times

 

Absolutely

 

Well since your not here, I guess I could follow you on here and be amazed at how much you would be, then every once in a while when you get bold online give myself a few strokes lol

 

I’ve had a few. I was looking honestly. One lasted a few years. I’m hopeful at this point.

 

I had one for a while several years ago. It was great while it lasted. I was looking for a while but have backed off lately due to life issues.

 

I had several, it's more of the sex is amazing but I don't wanna be their boyfriend type thing.

 

My FB for a few years now has brought friends around from time to time which is always great. We met in A gym shower when I couldn't keep my eyes off his cock.

 

I've had a few, both male and female, and how we got there was recognizing that, um, if we were to have sex - and keeping other feelings out of it - that wouldn't be all that bad, would it? I mean, it's just sex, right? It's... kinda cool being someone's "only" booty call or knowing that if you saw them, yeah, you could get it because they'd be happy to let you have it but, again, as long as no one gets into their feelings - and it's quite possible even though we like to say that it isn't. To that end, never, ever, underestimate the power of sex and its ability to totally unlock your feelings... because the sex is incredibly good.

As far as meeting them went, most of them I already knew - and we knew we had that chemistry between us but, you know, friends don't fuck their friends (which is bullshit); some were men or women that I met and the more we got to know each other, the more sense it made that, um, you know, if you just wanna get laid, we can help each other because, at the end of the day, it's sex and the test is can you have sex without your other emotions wanting to jump in and run the show?

 

Not sure if I can have sex with an existing friend…. Awkward

 

I had a few when I was younger, it was great fun.

 

Only if you make it that way... and the rules make it awkward and even more than trying to have sex with someone you just met, if you stop and think about it. To me, it's always begged the question of which is better: The devil you know or the one you don't know and while both can be bad, both can be good... if you don't buy into that dumb shit that says that friends can't and shouldn't fuck each other because if you can't fuck a friend, who can you fuck - and who are you supposed to fuck - and then, how the fuck do you do it without being friends of some kind?

We can't seem to keep having sex and having a relationship separate; we assume that if we fuck someone, now we gotta have a relationship with them when all you want to do is fuck them - and especially if, deep down, you know you want to - and we lie to ourselves about wanting to... because friends don't fuck each other. Yeah, right, sure they don't. It's only awkward if you make it awkward and if nothing else, you can ask and if they get all weird about it, oh, well, they just passed on a chance to get their soul stolen, didn't they?

I learned not to believe in that friends' rule crap; there have been friends who I wouldn't have sex with them to save their life or mine but, hmm, if you ask me, I just might say yes... because what are friends for?

 

A female friend says to me one day, "If we weren't friends, I'd want you to eat my pussy..." and I say, "If that's what you want me to do, I can do that - you know how much I love doing that." She says, "But we're friends..." and I say, "Who are you going to trust to do this for you; someone you know and who knows you or someone you don't know and have to learn some shit about before you let them get next to you?"

She brought up the feelings thing and I acknowledged it because it can happen but that's a down the road kind of thing; right now we're talking about her needing her pussy eaten and the implication that she'd like for me to do it - but she has concerns about the friends' rule and I say, "All we can do it give it a shot and see what happens; at the least, I'm going to spend an hour eating your pussy until I quit or you do and we can talk about whatever happens after that - and if anything happens at all.

I ate her for that hour; I got to eat her a few more times; made us closer as friends, didn't go beyond that and the only thing that changed was she found someone she wanted to be with - and we stayed friends. Guys are... different. At the least, they want their dick sucked but get worried about what everyone is going to say because we got into it. It's not necessarily a direct "violation" of the friends' rule because it has always seemed to me that guys who want to have sex with other guys seek out their friends first so as to avoid stranger danger and, well, sure - I can blow you and I won't say a word to anyone about it as long as you don't (not that I care if you tell someone else). Guys are likely to be a buddy until something better comes along or, as in some cases, they're back to being able to get pussy so coming to suck dick with me is no longer a "priorty" - until he gets hung out to dry or finds himself incredibly horny and there's no pussy to be had.

Awkward? It can be but, at least to me, the awkward part is asking them if they'd mind having sex with me and not that bullshit about it ruining friendships. If I'm your friend, why wouldn't I have sex with you if you asked and/or you really needed to? I'm not going to go rob a bank with you or anything like that but do some stuff to get you off? Sure, I can do that... because we're friends... unless you wanna be weird about it.

 

Never have had one but always wanted one I almost did but I was hung up on another girl so I didn’t do it, hind site 2020 I should have.

 

My wife had fuck buddies in college. I was at another university, and she was free to date. She made sure all of her dates knew about me and knew that she was only looking for fun, no romance. If her fuck buddies tried to get her to make some kind of commitment to them, she dropped them. It worked fine for her.