So here it is...I'm a black guy, married, and with a wonderful woman. But here's the problem: we can't have children. To explain it plainly, I can but she can't. And, together, we've come to an understanding about that. But, recently, an opportunity has presented itself. I've met someone that wants to have an interracial child, but my wife won't agree to it. I understand completely. But dammit, between my own desires and family expectations (I'm the last of my family name and apparently it's up to me to the continue the bloodline) I want to make a baby with SOMEONE. It's hard not to think about other outside encounters. I'm not saying it's right, I'm just being real. I want to be a father and my life situation prevents that. Not whining, just venting.
I had experienced the same situation as you. There was no one to carry on my bloodline. I had an affair with a married lady and had a daughter together. I.has created my problems my marriage and took.several to become her legal father. I was worth all the problems even those she chose not to use my last name
See if you can adopt a child. I know you are venting but make it simple you guys can't have kids. So look into adopting a child.
