hello, i met a girl we became friend and we had sex, first i wanna tell its my first time having sex with a girl that is a friend. I felt it was really nice, and it wasnt akwark. But today she told me she was with a boy that i know she like and i started to pannic i havent told her i was mad but that's literrally how i was. Took me all day too relax and analyse the situation, and finaly decided nothing was wrong she can met other person and have sex with them . I know she got sex with him cause he slept with her. well how can can we manage good friendship with sex without conflits, that's all i want to know. Because i wanna have a friendship with sex and without conflit cause im not really into love at this moment and she's not. Is there a way to get exlusity or she gonna get bored if i want the exclusivity? anyway if you guys wanna help would be great! thanks
in my years of experience one person always falls for the other and gets hurt. I wish you good luck but you are on unstable ground. My friend told me that when you are single and playing that you never fuck them twice....on the second time they own your ass.
yeah a lot of people talk about FWB and I even had a couple cases myself but it really (at least for me) only worked for a short time. What happens is usually you get close and it turns into a relationship, or as Mudlife said one person falls for the other person and complications arise, or one of the persons meets another person and things stop or at least go on pause
Leave your feelings in your car or your house, if you want it NSA keep it NSA. It's as simple and as difficult as that. It's possible but rare. Good luck!
obviously you are not capable of having a fwb relationship since it bothered you when she was with another guy. that is your conscience. i suggest that you preserve it. see if she wants to be in a relationship with you if you like her, if not then try to salvage your friendship and stop hooking up with her. also, work on your grammar.
OP...You want to know how to have sex with her without conflict, but your initial response to her being with another guy was panic, and being so mad that it took you all day to relax. Honestly, chances are you can't. Friends with benefits is a tricky situation, and if you are already allowing emotions to get the best of you (if they consumed you for a day, they have), then you are already in over your head. Not many people can pull off FWB, so you may want to REALLY think about your ability to....because at no point do you get to "decide" that it is okay if your fuck buddy has other partners or what she does with them.
I have been fwb and as long as you both know IT IS WHAT IT IS, there are not problems. If you see that one person is getting controlling then it is time to back off ;(
