Okay, not sure if this is the right place for this but I thought I'd give it a try... I am still good friends with my ex-boyfriend. He recently told me that I was not "freaky" enough. Any ideas on how to be "freaky", for future use? Edit: The thing is: I WANT to be able to do more than the typical things that most people do. How would I satisfy a guy that wants more than missionary with slight variations (yeah, I'm not too experienced)? What are some good positions or links to help me? I don't watch porn or look at it, so maybe that is why I'm not knowledgable with all this. Is there something that I could look at or read to show me different things so I might be able to learn what I like.
as long as you aren't a motionless log in bed, it's fine. So he prefers someone different than you, that's fine. you shouldn't go changing who you are or doing things that make you uncomfortable for a boy. freaky can mean any number of things, from brown showers to being a dominatrix to being tied up. s'all different. Just ask your next partner what his/her fantasies are and see whehter or not it goes past your personal boundaries.
i was born a freak and ill die one, its good. im always worried about gettin into one thing too much though incase im with next girl and cant get turned on with out a plastic bag on my head a pair of stockings on and an orange laced with amyl nitrate in my mouth. i wouldnt worry though, experiance will come wiv time, no point doin stuff it it dont turn u on, just explore your own sexuality and see what does it for you. turn ons actually start to grow when u start exploring, its wicked when u meet someone with same kind of mind as ya. you end up gettin up to all sorts of mischeif.
i'd say have more kinky sex. don't feel you have to get hogtied and gagged (although feel free if you want to ). just small things like you being on top of him and holding him down while you do what you want to him. just be more adventurous and try different things - don't just stick to vanilla sex. blindfolds would be a nice thing to try.
