Found me after 33 years

So I got an e-mail the other day from some dude I knew (more like slept with, I'm thinking) that I haven't seen (or thought of) in 33 years. How in the heck does somebody get your e-mail like that? I mean I live about as physically far as I could get from where I grew up. He says that he's been keeping track of me through the years. I've been having to fry my brain to even remember who it could possibly be. Isn't that kinda creepy? There's noone in my immediate family left to even ask about me, how does he know where I am? And that I'm married or that my Dad is in a nursing home?

 

http://peoplesearch.iaf.net/white-pages.html

 

thats a long time to keep track of someone...

 

I tried getting in touch with a childhood friend from Hawaii, but gave up easily.

 

Now that was fascinating stuff. I'm in there from 20 years ago. Nothing recent I could find.

I think it's a long time to keep track of someone too. And then all of the sudden make contact? I'm feeling a little stalked here.

 

There are many tools on the net, that was just an example.

I would be a little freaked out, but at the same time, you must mean a lot to him for the effort...

 

creepy an then some..

love all trust noone..

tis my motto..

 

That's what he is saying. He's trying to make me guess who he is and seems a little insulted that I can't get right off the bat. I'm beginning to have an idea and if I'm right, it's just someone I knew in passing (on my part, anyway).

 

trying to get you to guess who it is...after 33 years...shit i can't even remember kids from middle school and thats not even 10 years ago...

 

tell me about it. I'm like, "Wha?"

 

Poor guy... Just be sure not to lead him on in any way. Tell him to tell you who he is or to leave you alone. You don't want a guy that has been following you around that long to feel rejected, but you also don't want to lead him on... I would imagine that this would freak you out...

 

^Oh, you are absolutely right! And I have an update just now on my e-mail. It was the great sex that has kept him intrigued. Hahhahahahha


But seriously, now I'm more than slightly concerned. I mean I'm assuming he's back in TX, but I don't know that.

 

Hacker my friend, thats quite a long way down the road, when she doesn't even know who he is yet.
I can't even imagine it as i'm only 30 (didn't mean to rub it in!) I wouldn't say break contact but I'd advise caution, for a start he's playing games, by not telling you who he is, saying that he's kept tracks of you seems mildly threatening and why exactly in that case did he leave it so long to make contact?
oh thanks for posting one of the more interesting posts on here of late!
S

 

How would he react if you told him you were with someone and asked him to back off? Maybe you should ignore his emails, etc.

That is kind of scary...

 

sounds like we're reaching the same conclusions when are you going to break that telephatic link with me, by the way did you know ive been keeping track of you for the last twenty years mhawhaha!!!!!!!
S

 

I am concerned. Here's his latest e-mail to me: I mean I was 17 at the time and kinda wild, but this is really strange I think.


OK, YOU, *Bleep* AND I HAD OUTRAGES SEX EACH TIME YOU CAME OVER AND WE ALL LOVEDIT. YOU ARE THE REASON I ALLMOST DIDN'T MARRY MY WIFE DUE TO OUR GREAT TIMESTOGETHER. YOU WERE ONE OF THE SEXIEST YOUNG LADIES I EVER MET IN MY LIFE. I OWN ASMALL CHAIN OF MATTRESS STORES (4) AND THAT IS THE BUSINESS I AM IN. MY WIFE TALKEDABOUT YOU FOR YEARS AFTER WE WERE MARRIED. THAT SEX WITH YOU WAS SO GREAT I GUESS IHAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO LET GO EVEN AFTER ALL THESE YEARS. OUR RELATIONSHIP WAS BASEDON SEX ONLY AND WE BOTH LOVED IT. NOW YOU KNOW, SO RESPOND..... ALSO YOU WERE ONEOF THE BEST GIRLS TO BE WITH, I CAN'T BELIEVE I AM WRITING THIS TO YOU. YOU USE TOCOME OVER TO THE APT JUST FOR SEX, WITH *Bleep* AND I. MY GIRLFRIEND, NOW WIFE CAME TOTHE APT AND YOU EXITED OUT THE WINDOW. YOU WERE ONE OF A KIND....

 

Who is this?

You followed me since I was 12?

hmmm...

creepy...

 

That is downright creepy. Do Not respond. I'd report him.

That is just creepy.

 

please
Just block him now
S

 

i know very, as i was only ten at the time, i'm so offended you can't even remember me can you?
S