A question - Are there any ladies here who think it's hot, or would get aroused by seeing your guy with another lady?? It's very well documented in numerous places that many guys would be very turned-on to see or know that their ladies are enjoying another guy. And allow / enjoy / support it happening. Just wondering about the ladies' views.
No.. why would you get aroused by seeing someone you supposedly love with someone else? Clear evidence of the shallowness, lack of trustworthiness and sincerity of the people involved...
When we used to swing, my GF often pointed out a woman to me and told me what she would like to see me do with her. I returned the favor if I saw a guy she might like. In a committed relationship? No way!