For the girls: How long did you wait before having sex with your boyfriend?

So yeah, I'm curious how long most girls are waiting. I've been dating my boyfriend for just over a month and he's been my boyfriend for two weeks. I want to do it, but I feel like it's too soon.
Just curious how long other girls are waiting.

 

if you have to ask, you aren't ready to go yet.

 

lol...theres no "marriage" option

 

I don't understand.
If you want to do it, why don't you just do it?

 

I'm ready to go, it's restraining myself that's the problem.

 

I haven't done it before, I don't want this to be a mistake. I want to be sure this is going to last. I also don't want him to think I'm cheap, not respect me anymore, etc.

 

You haven't done it before? Then 2 weeks is probably pushing it if you care about things like that.

In terms of adult dating, it's probably around average.

Those are two different worlds, though.

 

i fuck on the 1st date, or else she's out

 

^^ Yeah, I feel like I should've waited to do the other stuff we've done too, but it is hard to stop.

 

HAHA! so you wanna start "dating" now or what?! haha I should get the shirt "I FUCK ON THE FIRST DATE"

 

lets go

 

Yeup. It gets harder as people get older because they expect more quicker.

I'd probably just be honest about your situation.

 

Be honest about what, being a virgin? He knows that. He hasn't pressured me, honestly I think I'm the one getting the most antsy.

 

About how you're feeling.

 

Oh. I plan on it next time I see him. He'll be disappointed 'cause he thought he was going to get some soon, but he's patient.

 

If I get the sense that the girl is waiting just to wait- she's dropped. Or worse, I fuck her then drop her--- as I've done on occasion.

I really don't see how waiting is connected to respect in any way. It's just crappy primadona behavior---. It makes me lose respect; not the opposite.

Now, if you're a virgin: different story. You're probably afraid of not a few things? :cheers2:

Edit: But those things should be discussed directly with your bf not with forum people!

 

I hate the waiting for the sake of waiting.

twice I've been told "if we have sex you won't see me again" or something like that.. bollocks

 

In my case, I can say for sure--- the longer a woman waits, the less of a chance she has of me sticking around. iggy:

 

I think you should do it.

I can tell that you're ready.

 

^^ I feel like I am, my main issue here is not so much the respect part, I'm pretty sure he'll still respect me in the morning. It's just that I can't get it back once I give it up. I'm waiting to make sure he's the one I can give it to with no regrets.