For all single people out there

If your single, what do you normally do on a Friday night. I just want to know, because I have a boyfriend.

 

I usually go out and hang out with friends. I see you are from Phoenix, and since it is a pretty big town going to a local hot spot such as a park isnt the safest thing to do at night.

 

watch tv! :O!

 

Hey People.
I am not gay. I'm 34 yrs old and single. I live in a Special Care Home, because I have lost all my ambition, and I'm dependant on anti-depressants, anti-anxiety pills, and anti-psychotic pills. Confused? I'll clerify. I was born with a very small penis, but was lucky enough to still have had sex with women my whole life; except the last seven years. I'm not one of those guys who doesn't realize that he's gay, and is confused about his sexual orientation. There's no question in my mind; I'm straight. However, I've never been much of a good experience to women sexually. I always had to appoligize, because also having a small dick, I had no stamina; two minutes tops. There is no question about it, I was the world's worst lay.
Ever since I can remember, I've always been a bit picky on my clothes. I didn't regularly wear rags, but I wasn't a metro-sexual either. I'm a T-shirt and jeans guy. I seriously messed up my life for good in 1995. I had no self esteem, and I felt skinny at 6 ft and 160 lbs. So not doing any research, and with no clue to what I was doing, I turned to Anabolic Steroids. I gained 15 lbs within two months, then stopped taking roids thinking that my muscle mass was permanent; stupid me. I left for college, leaving behind my then girlfriend. After about three months, I started losing muscle mass, strength, and started looking like an Aids victim. All my friends abandoned me because they didn't understand what was happening to me. I could no longer bear to look at myself in the mirror, and people would walk in an obviously evasive way around me, so they didn't have to meet my eyes. I really felt like the loneliest person on Earth, and I lived only inside my tormented mind. Some people, on a few occasions, made me feel like shit under their shoes; they said I was gay. I used to be a little homophobic because I didn't understand gays. But after being treated like one, I developed an understanding for gay people. After suffering like one, I could no longer discriminate against them. Gay people have to suffer the jokes and hatred that people throw at them, and are expected to be successful in a world that doesn't want them here. I tried to kill myself just before completing my final year of college. After I fell, I got up and dusted myself off, then finished school.
I returned home to my family, but I was still in a world of my own. I spoke jibberish, and my family couldn't understand me. After another few suicide attempts, I got psychiatric help and was medicated to balance the chemicals in my head. I put on weight; went up to 270 lbs. I moved from one Special Care Home to another, and finally settled where I now live. I lost 35 lbs and I feel alright. And I have come to terms that I'll probably remain single for the rest of my life. No normal woman would accept a broken down half-man like me. The women who I'm attracted to, are not attracted to me, but the women I want nothing to do with, try to pick me up. It's torture to have to explain my situation, and have to turn down these women. They don't like rejection anymore then men do. The steroids shrank my penis and testicals. I have almost no sperm production. I lost about 90% of my sex drive. And I have significant erectyle dysfunction. The only thing I have that is close to sex is watching women masturbate in videos that I get off the internet. I masterbate, and it's over in less than a minute. I only get the urge to masturbate about once per month; quite a difference than before 1995, when I craved sex once every second day.
I live in a Special Care Home, isolated from the world of responsibilities and people who don't understand my situation. They see me without a woman, and not pursuing any woman, and they conclude that I must be gay. I get so angry that I can easily see myself kick some serious ass. But I don't want to go to prison, where anal rape is a must. I don't understand how anal sex can excite anyone, whether you're the giver or the receiver. I tried it once with a girlfriend, and it felt disgusting. To finish, and to explain why I'm so fucked up in the end. My mother was sexually molested and beatten by her perverted father from the age of 12 to 16. Also, my father was sexually molested by a Catholic priest when he was an altar-boy. I was never molested or abused by my parents, but I'm the product of two parents who were. So when everything is said and done, I just wanted to let the gay community know that not everyone in this weird world is an ignorant asshole.

 

Usually go out drinking with friends (College! Wuw!)

 

I usually have to work. Work and sleep.

 

Ha.. just becuase someone doesn't have a signifigant other doesn't mean they don't have a social life on the weekends!

My boyfriend and I usually hang out with friends on the weekend and drink/hang out.

 

I have little or no social life yet >.< and have to wait 2 years and 2 months 'til i can legally go drinking and clubbing and start meeting other gays. So friday nights for me consist of Study/TV/Comp/Fantasizing and usually ends with sleep

 

drinking with friends

 

I generally stay home getting stoned. Just like any other evening, really.

 

I usually stay home and read or watch films. Most of the time I'm on the internet.

 

Go out with my mates? hit the piss?

Just because i don't have a partner, doesn't mean i'm a hermit hahah

 

well I have a partner and I reckon I do the same things as people who don't have one, sometimes watch tv, sometimes go out for a drink (although not often as I find pubs and clubs boring) have friends round visit friends, go and visit my parents, go to the cinema, how would any of this differ If I was single?
S

 

get drunk and stoned and crash at a friends house. . or stay home on the computer, tv, movies, and video games.

 

There are two responses I would like to give to this message. Firstly, the one that immediately popped into my head:

What does you having a boyfriend have anything to do with it? As proud as I'm sure you are of having a boyfriend, I feel you are just parading about, showing off.

...I'm guessing that isn't the kind of thing you want to hear? An alternative response would be:

Wow! I'm really glad that you have a boyfriend! I'm really curious as to what you get up to on Friday nights I tend not to do anything too exciting and wish I were as lucky as you!

Well...Anyway theres a response to your question in two different ways. One I'm assuming will piss you off and so will the other now that it willl come across as completely insincere, but I'm guessing you're proud of your boyfriend and wanted everyone to know =] I also know a really amazing guy who isn't my boyfriend, but I still really like and want to tell people about so I won't criticise you for it ;P

 

Hang out with friends, doing all sorts of things.

 

i usually just chill, but if u want to know wat to do wit ur boyfriend, just remember that it's the smaller and less expensive dates that are worth remebering.

 

um, i dont ever really do anything different from when i have a bf and when I don't. I go clubbing a lot, or have a night on the town with a few of my friends. Not much different really, other than my sex life.

 

When my boyfriend used to live here, we'd do something every night, whether it was hang out with friends, go out to the city, drugs, or sex or whatever else.

 

I don't really have an active social life. I never did. I usually spend my Fridays in the same way I always did. I stay at home and keep to myself.

My computer is usually my social life and I don't have the money to hang out at bars. Especially since they are so damn expensive in this town.