I've never smoked marijuana before, and I have a few questions I hope you guys can answer. I still live with my parents which is a downer. I'm 18 but I still want to avoid being caught because I have a close family and would like to keep it that way. My plan is to go outside when my parents are asleep, and either hang out there or go back in after smoking. So, how in control are you exactly? Is it like being drunk, or what? I've also heard you could fall asleep your first time... I don't think it'd be good if my mom found me asleep on the grass in the morning, so would it be better to go inside? Any other advice would be much appreciated.
First time I smoked I didnt really get that high to tell you the truth. It was prolly about the 5th time when I got really baked for the first time. When Im really baked it doesnt really effect my coordination, not like alcohol does. You should be able to just chill out inside and watch tv or something without doing anything too dumb. If I was you though for the first bit I would stay at an opposite end of the house from your parents bedroom untill the pot smell goes away. I would say 20-25 min max should let you air out. And unless you are smoking in the house (which you said you arent) they wont be able to smell it the next morning. Oh one more thing if you do smoke outside make sure that you arent near any open windows (especially your parents bedroom) because that can get ugly fast.
Make sure your parents windows arn't open for the smoke to drift into(If you plan on smoking outside your house). You won't like fall asleep like you are walking around and doing shit and fall asleep out of nowhere but if you lay down and close your eyes and such you might. You actually basically have full control of what you do. I know the first time I smoked everything I did felt awkward but I was actually acting rather normal. And a lot of people don't get high their first time because they don't inhale properly. Suck a good ammount of smoke into your LUNGS, not your mouth, and then take your mouth off of the pipe or joing or bong or whatever and take a deep breath of oxygen and hold for a few seconds then exhale. Really simple. IF YOU COUGH YOU ARE DOING IT RIGHT!
It took me till the 5th time to get actually high and I smoked the same then and the same now so you may or you may not get high. The worst thing that can happen is you will get couch lock and it will be like a big journey to walk inside but you probably wouldn't get that until your already inside and it depends if your smoking a strong indica strain or not.
I have 3 questions: 1. Is weed addicting? I have only done it 5 times within a year and I have felt the urge to do it again, I like the feeling though...lol 2. Do any of yall like promote the use of marijuana? I don't care if ya do but I am just curoius. I don't tell any of friends to do it and I totally discourage my cousins on doing it. 3. Where is a good place to find it? I have a "supplier" that has some really good stuff for cheap but I was wondering how could ya find it if ya didnt have "suppliers"
1. physically- no, mentally almost no. theres always afew that smoke for 5years straight and then have difficulty living theyre lives sober. 2. well im not like you should do it, but if they ask whats it like i tell em the truth- one of the best feelings ever. 3. people and growing ur own. generally ask around if u see someone drinking or smoking a cigg just go and like ask if he knows wwere u can get some. i guess u can ask people in school and college, skate parks. oh and if u see dreadlocks, rhasta colours, bob marely t shirts or smell pot- u know ur just outside the gold mine- u just need to step in and introduce yourself right
I have another question, about the paranoia: If I do go back inside and watch TV or something, will I just be freaking out about someone walking in on me or something? If so, any tips on how to avoid this?
noone can predict it, cuz it is all down to you. but theres one thing which always helped me: ok look, u get high and u get paranoied about getting caught/dieing/end of the world/ garden gnomes. u think to urself, me thinking will not stop someone from catching/killing/from stealing my underwear. so u say, i can enjoy and not think about this and get caught, or be paranoied and scared and get caught. because 99% of the time nothing will happen. so yeah, make it worthwile or waste it, chances are you wont get caught so if u get scary thoughts, dont think about it. most common fears are once u get fast heart rate that u will die, smelling weed everywhere thinking u will be cought, etc etc. if it starts just think about other happy stuff. remember there hasnt been a single death from weed, ever.
Depends on you I go outside when my parents are asleep all the time and spend the night out there. As far as how "out of control" you are it really depends on you. Just give yourslef plenty of room to change what your doing and don't make it sort of sketchy. Like if you have to be super quiet and are close to your parents just don't do it because something unexpected almost certainly will happen. Advice, Don't rush smoking Pay close attention to how your inhaling and read up on how to inhale right, just get some advice, you should be coughing up a lung Make sure you have everything you need so you don't need to go inside to get water or something like that
Well, now I guess I'm going to go to my friends house next weekend for a few hours (his parents are gone every saturday for about 2-4 hours). So, I think I'll have enough time to get high and come down with his parents gone. They don't know me well at all though, so I doubt they'd be suspicious of anything. Then my friend can just drive me home, and hopefully I won't be high by then so it'll be good. Well, that sounds like it will work in theory, but who knows. Oh well, I'll just cluster fuck my way through this. Let's see what happens
you wont know until you do it. ,y parents were really honest, and supervised my first time, to make sure I wasnt allergic (i have a friend who is) and make sure I wasnt stupid or obnoxious. I was fine. I rarely get paranoid, and I would advise going slow. I am thoroughly capable of quitting, but I have anxiety attacks, and overly intense dreams when I dont smoke, so I rarely quit. I dont suggest doing anything that might be dangerous, and it is not usually like being drunk. when I am really really high, the air sometimes feels thicker, but my reflexes arent usually hampered . I would go for a walk, or just wait for your parents to go out. give your mom a giftcard to a romantic restaurant for her birthday/parents anniversary. then you can relax. bugs in grass= no sleeping in grass. I didnt get high my first time either, it was the second and you should ALWAYS buy through friends. I have never bought pot from someone I didnt know, or from a friends dealer (with the friend present) and dont forget to have munchies on hand.
the only thing i would worry about is possibly laughing uncontrollably for no apparent reason, which could be kind of a giveaway..
1.First you better have a definition of "addicting". Just because you want more of it means absolutely nothing. The first time you had chocolate, did you not want more? What about ice cream? How many times have you seen your favorite movie? The definition of addiction, as I heard it, is whether withdrawal symptoms appear consistantly throughout the majority of users after they stop using the drug. The symptoms also have to be directly correlated with use of the drug (i.e. when you take more, the symptoms go away, and the symptoms are a product of withdrawal and nothing else). If we're using that definition, weed is less addicting than caffiene. 2.I promote the use of marijuana like there's no tomorrow. In fact, if I knew I wouldn't get arrested, I'd organize public smoke-outs like some people on this forum. I think everyone should smoke. Or injest it in some way. It's incredibly therepeutic.
You will only get caught if you constantly think that you will get caught. I know how you feel about the parent thing, my parent don't approve the use of marijuana. The first time I smoked was at a friends house ( I will use codenames to rotect their privacy), I usally chill out some1udontnow's house but his time it was diferent. Stoltz came over as well and he was just one of my "suppliers" (his dad grows it), we waited for Some1 to go to bed and then we lite up. I was a fantastic feeling, after the first few minites I started to get hungery...lol All I have to say on the prevention of getting caught is doing it a friends house or just dont wear a shirt when ya smoke it and use a lot of Axe.
