Hello everybody. Me and my girlfriend decided to have sex for first time, and while we were getting down to it I was as hard as rock. As soon as we undressed and I started pleasing her with my hands, I wasn't hard anymore and I couldn't get hard afterwards. When she left, I turned porn on and I was hard.. all was normal. I love her, she loves me, we are both attracted to eachother. Did anyone else have problem like this? I saw people complain about anxiety and stress a lot. I was not stressed out at all when I was with her, but now I feel a little bit shaken up, since 2 times we tried to have sex, both times I couldn't get hard.
Porn-induced erectile dydfunction. Google it. You can get hard with porn and not a real woman... that's porn ED.
Porn-induced erectile dysfunction. Google it. You can get hard with porn, and not a real woman... that's porn ED. The way to get over it is to STOP jerking off to porn. Stop watching porn altogether. It truly is destructive. Rebooting takes weeks to months depending on the degree of severity. Or keep jerking off to porn, but just don't expect to ever have real sex with a real woman.
It definitely sounds like ED, porn-induced or otherwise. It's similar to the sort of ED I developed in later life. (At, almost 61, I'm old enough that I didn't have the convenience of internet porn at my disposal when I was young and much more sexually active.) As the others posters indicated, see your PCP and don't forget to tell them about your level of porn usage. Chemical intervention may be in order, although if you're as young as your first post suggests, I'd hope that other alternatives might be just as effective.
Well, I am under 18 so I don't think any chemicals will be needed.. Just going to stop watching porn and hope it all works out.. if it doesn't, I'm going to see with my doctor what does she have to say.
