first time sex

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by ajse, Sep 28, 2005.

  1. ajse

    ajse Member

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    Hi all,

    I am going to get married very soon.When I will have first time sex with my wife,then is there any way so that I can come to know whether she had sex before.Please help.I really want to know whether she is vergin or not?Someone told me that a woman bleeds when she is having first time sex.Is it true?

    Thanx,
    Ajse
     
  2. wiggy

    wiggy Bitch

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    you could do the easy thing and ask her is she is!!!!!!
    she will proberly tell you the truth and if you dont believe her then thats your own little problem,

    the only ways will be if her hymen is broken which is like a little bit of skin, BUT it can be broken in different ways e.g tampons, exercise, horse riding!!!! not every woman bleeds either so thats not a good way.

    i seriously think you should talk to her though, would it be that bad if she wasnt!!
     
  3. whatwasithinking

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    Not all women bleed when they lose their virginity. The most simple thing is to look into her vagina to see if she's still a virgin or not.
     
  4. wiggy

    wiggy Bitch

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    whatwasitthinking!!!!!! are you being serious? look in her vigina? how will he be able to see if she's a virgin?
     
  5. wadaler

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    actually, some women had sex b4 but they still have vigina. others, they may have never had sex b4, but their vigina are just not there. in conclusion, there is no way u can tell she is a virgin or not! one marry woman, he'd better trust her! otherwise, dont marry her!...this is my opinion!
     
  6. tempo

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    Why is it such a big deal, If your going to marry her make sure you love her and things like this don't bother you, it will make for a quick divorce.
     
  7. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    people, it's vAgina, not vigina. sorry, twitchy over spelling these days

    what does it matter if you really love her? like tempo said, love is gonna be more important than who fucked who previously.

    some women do bleed, some don't. I never did, my first time didn't hurt at all, but I do remember getting some spotting when I was first learning how to ride a bike so I think that's when my hymen broke. Some chicks aren't even born with a hymen, it's not the best measure of virginity

    most virgins are pretty awkward and uncoordinated when it comes to sex. Some less so than others, either because they intuitively know what turns their partner on or because they've researched it (there are a few thousand how-to's on blowjobs out there after all).

    I'd say don't worry about virginities, think about the love you two share.
     
  8. whatwasithinking

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    Of course I'm serious, Wiggy. The only thing he would have to do is spread the lips of her vagina a bit and see if she still has a hymen (or not).

    Here's a link for him in case he doesn't know what the hymen looks like or where it's situated. Please, don't click on it if you don't want to see a picture of a female genitlas!

    http://www.coolnurse.com/images/hymen1.jpg
     
  9. tempo

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    I think she reffered to the idea of giving her a physical when he is affraid of just asking....besides how is he going to explain the foreplay with a flash light [​IMG]
     
  10. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    ASK HER. Do not marry someone if you think they are lying to you about sex.
    There is no point in looking at a woman's genitals for clues if you have no idea what you are looking for.

    Some of the answers here are hilarious.....
    "check if she has a vigina" -HELLO...first of all, learn to spell...v-a-g-i-n-a...second where does it go when we have sex? You need to look up your terms....
    "see if she still has a hymen" -again...where do you think it goes after we have sex? On vacation? It is still there, just not the same.

    Unless you are a doctor who knows what to look for, forget it. All vaginas are different.
     
  11. GreenBird

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    As others have already said hymens are often broken before sex so that it not an indicator of whether she's a virgin or not.
    Ask her and trust her, you should trust her if you're marrying her.
     
  12. wizarddrew77

    wizarddrew77 The Wiz

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    Forget that bleeding thing-if you find anyones car keys in there-she's not a Virgin.
     
  13. lovelightlisa

    lovelightlisa Senior Member

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    LOL LOL LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    i love you!
     
  14. PrettyUgly

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    How can you tell if a male is a virgin or not?! LOL!
     
  15. Nessa Anarion

    Nessa Anarion Member

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    my god... you guys really need some sex classes. this is ridiculous. ASK HER for god sakes...
     
  16. Destro_the_punk

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    isn't a HIPPY FORUM the wrong placeto look for information on the purity of your bride to be/ idealy her hymne should be intact if she's a good physicaly inactive young woman, but who knows. between skiinng, running and life, most females loose thier hymne without sex.
     
  17. SofiaS

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    yeah thats right!
     
  18. CachedOut

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    This probably sounds bad, but I'd never buy a car without test driving it first. Thats just my opinion, I could be wrong.

    Cachedout
     
  19. cutelildeadbear

    cutelildeadbear Hip Forums Gym Rat

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    Agree 100%! Not only should you test drive the one you are going to buy, but you should test drive some others just to make sure there aren't any better ones out there. I mean you wouldn't want to get stuck with a lemon would ya? ;)




     
  20. mattzdope

    mattzdope Banned

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    There are a lot of clueless people around here eh?
     

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