First Time Sex With Guy You Don't Care About Rather Than Guy You Do So He Will Still Respect You

Question for the ladies. How common is it to lose your virginity to a guy who means nothing to you because you don't care if he respects you or not, rather than to the guy you care deeply for?

Background. A girl and I had been dating and very serious for a couple of years. She was away at college and all her friends convinced her that she needed to try sex. Rather than call me to come down and "help", she found a guy she worked with that she had no real feelings for to try sex with. Her rational was she didn't care how he felt about her, but she wanted me to respect her. This was quite a while ago, but I just can't get my head around that. So, ladies, how common is this thought process.

 

I'm probably going to get roasted for this by some hip members but if you try to analyze and understand the female thought process you are going to go nuts. ?

 

She says, "Will you still respect me in the morning?"

I said "Bitch I don't even respect you now."

C/S,
Rev J

 

Sound like how girls pick randoms to have a threesome versus a guy she cares about

 

D'uh.....or the other guy was hotter than you