Well, i was obsessed with this girl like over the whole summer. She was a year older than me, and going to college while i was gonna be a senior in highschool, but we could never get past just making out. Now, she went away to school, and we hung out a bit, but then i realized how badly she treated me and such, and flipped out on her and didnt talk to her for like 3 weeks. Then, i talked to her a few times, became friends again i guess. Then the other night, she IMs me, and we stay up til like 3 AM talking about our past relationship and everything and decide to hang out the next day. She comes over, and we are watching a movie, snuggling together, and then when the movie ends, we start making out, then i started feeling her up, then going down on her. Then im like, wanna go upstiars? Shes like okay, so then we go upstairs, and we have sex. Now, it was the first time for both of us, but i dont think its gonna be the last. It wasnt as enjoyable as i thought. Im a normal sized guy, 6 inches, but i couldnt get it in all the way. I tried at first, but it hurt her. I mean, ive heard that when a guy does it for his first time it lasts like 30 seconds, but this lasted like 10 minutes. Will it get better? I mean, it was fun, but not as much as it was cracked up to be.
It WILL get much better. If it was her first time then of course it hurt when you tried to stick it in all the way. The first time is really not that fun because you both have no experience. Don't worry, it will get better. SEX IS GREAT!!!!!!
Well, some thins my friends have said to me, is that her cherry hasnt been popped yet. This seems like it could be true, because it was like hitting a wall in there. If this is true, i would feel really bad popping it, i mean, i don't want to hurt her, and plus, who wants to get bloody. If it wont hurt her that much, i wouldnt mind doing it, but i would still feel awful. Sooo, as said before, im just confused with the whole situation.
foreplay foreplay FOREPLAY if you're having problems entering her, it's time for both of you to engage in more foreplay. Fingers, tongues, toys, anything to get her more ready, a little more stretched out for you. and congrats, I'm glad you found someone you're really into and got to fool around with her
ya know, im not really sure, but i really liked this girl, flipped out on her after like 6 months, and then didnt talk to her for like a month. She got all upset, apologized like non stop, and now that i dont let her walk all over me, we are MUCH better off. So, any more comments?
try using lube, that will make it easier for you get in. Also make sure to have some foreplay, like ihmurria mentioned, that will have her cumming and also loosen her up a bit. have fun brother.
Okay, i got another problem now. I was hanging out with her tonight, we were driving around, this leads to that, she starts giving me head. It is my first time, and when she first put her mouth on it, i thuoght i was gonna blow right then. But i didnt, and after like 15 minutes, of AWESOME pleasure, i still didn't. She got frustrated, felt like she sucked at it, and felt bad. I feel horrible, because i feel it is my fault. I mean, it felt AMAZING, i just oculdnt finish. I dunno if it was because of distractions or something. The radio was on, i found my self singing along with songs at some points. I dunno, it was her first time too, and now she feels like she cant give good head, and i feel it was my fault, it just sucks. I told her how i think its my fault, and it wasnt the right mood for it, but she still feels like shit. Whats wrong with me, and what should i do?
