First time bi sex

I’m a straight guy with a girlfriend. Who knows nothing apart from odd hint... I’ve done most things with guys but not been fucked! I want it so bad I think about it constant but I just can’t seem to get there!! I’m a little anxious and worried how can I get over that?

 

I haven't fucked or been fucked by guys, so, I can't speak from experience. But, I can assume it's like with everything else. You have to have more frequent interaction with guys and you have to push your boundaries a little.

 

So you saying go for it and keep doing it

 

Be honest here, if you've done most things with guys then you're most likely not what people consider to be straight. I'm not here to judge you, but you should probably accept the fact that you're most likely bisexual. So I take it you're not wanting to discuss with her that you've been with men and wish to keep your encounters secret from her? I get that. For 16 years of the 25 years I was married to my first wife I hooked up with other married men for mutual oral so you're not alone. I was never interested in fucking or being fucked by a man, I just really enjoyed sucking cock until just recently. I too wanted to take the plunge as the various toys she used on me felt so good while she was giving me oral. I suggest you just simply take the plunge. Do so with a guy that's experienced, who will ease his way inside you so to keep the moment as pleasurable as possible. Once his cock is inside you the slight discomfort of initial penetration fades away and begins to feel quite pleasurable allowing him to thrust deeper inside you and before you know it you'll be pushing your ass backwards against his cock wanting it deeper and deeper, thrusting faster and faster inside you. The real thing is far better than any toy, you've just got to take the plunge.

 

I say, give yourself some slack and explore the things that interest you. That might mean taking a break from the gf, if you feel that you may be cheating. But, the reality is that you have interests and desires that she alone can not fulfill. She may be understanding and she may not. And take it from me... the "odd hint" will never get your point across. You have to be open and blunt with her.

You do not want to commit yourself to a person without getting to know yourself first. That takes time and exploration. It also takes a bit of selfishness. You have to say, "I deserve to have experiences with men." This is your life and you should live it on your terms.

 

My first time was a birthday present from my friend. He has a great cock but was scared to show it off

 

Hey Pipe, I say go for it man! If you’ve done most things with guys I feel it’s only natural to want it all...at least that was my experience. My first fwb was a good friend I did it all with. Things progressed from jerking to sucking which led to me really wanting to try getting fucked. I initiated butt play by asking if he wanted to slide his cock up and down between my ass cheeks like titty fucking. We did it a few times, each of which he seemed pretty into and always left a big load between them. After those few times I couldn’t take it. One night I was sucking him and he kept leaning forward to fondle my ass. After the third or fourth time I decided I was gonna go for it. I didn’t ask or tell him what we were gonna do, I just lubed up his cock, straddled him, and put it in my ass.

It hurt pretty good at first, even with a few months of anal masturbation, so if you do go for it, I’d suggest using toys on yourself first. And honestly, it was so worth the risk of going for it. He loved fucking my ass, and I love(d) getting fucked.

And that first time, he came in like 5 minutes of having his cock in me...so I’m pretty sure he liked it.

 

First time was with a guy at a party. First 3 sum was with the girl who is now my wife. I suggested we get it on she said she would if I gave the guy a blow job. I wanted to but was nervous. Once I started I was loving it and was even more turned on by how excited she was. I finished him off, but she had wanted to. She wasn't upset but instead was impressed with my performance.

 

I found using dildos to get used to being penetrated helped. It became pleasurable and the discomfort went away. That gave me the confidence to take a guys cock. The first time for me was with a guy that has an eight inch cock and it was extremely comfortable and pleasurable.

 

That's how i started too, then the first time i really enjoyed it so much that now i really love it

 

My wife loves to see me suck a dick too

 

That's great, my wife is always impressed and turned on watching me suck our boyfriends cock and when I deep throat his 9 1/2" to the balls she's shocked. She can take about 7" which is ok by me as I sport 8" myself.

 

Yes, my wife gets so wet, she always has to join in with me - we share it often and that way she gets two dicks too

 

Oh yeah, my wife and Carol both love being fucked at both ends.

 

Fist time. A craigslist ad ---- professional in nearby Hilton wanted to suck a newbie. Nervous, I went over and felt at ease quickly and laid back on the bed and let him go to work. Very picky, so don't do it often.

 

However, the cl and bp are closed their personal ads section now. We should use other alternative place to post now.

 

Like where? I have tried a few sites but none of them deliver as well as CL, even with the high number of flakes.

 

You'll love it when you finally do it, have you top guy finger fuck you with lube to get you going.

 

A good finger fuck like TopMan1955 said is a good start, then have him slowly enter you...the entry of the head of his cock can be an eye opener but have him pause there and just enter and exit the head but each time he enters have him go a little bit deeper until he's managed to get all of himself inside...Then enjoy...I love being fucked in the ass by my wife and especially our boyfriends 9 1/2" cock.

 

After he finally got me to submit and went down on me I was pretty well hooked. I spent alot of time at his place experimenting. Sometimes a couple hours.....a day....and as things progressed weekends. I always topped in th beginning...and it was like that for a long time. I was at his house one day while he was at work watching one of his gay pornos and a guy was getting rimmed. That night I asked him to rim me. It was such a pleasurable turn-on for me I had to be topped. I havent topped since. It helped that he wasnt very big and I was extremely turned on and ready. It took almost 2 yrs for that to happen